Fine

[wollyboy]

Alright well, I was asked, so I guess I'm back, again. Why, I don't know. I don't do anything interesting, none of my posts are even interesting to me, and hell, I write them. At least I'm back online, for all that's worth. Mostly it means getting in touch with Laura, Gary, Jamie, Jeremy, and Family easier

Comments

[neopariah]

Well, this is a handful. Where to start? Since it's a familiar subject, I guess I'll start with me.

I'm not sure exactly where you get the idea that I've changed from. Are you talking about since we originally met? Oh, for sure I've changed since then. Mr. Powell is dead. Kitty mortally wounded him back in '98. It just took 3 or 4 years for him to die and have me rise from his ashes. I think that's the only real change I've had. I don't think marriage has changed me, much if at all. From my point of view, it's you that's changed, and you're just not liking how I'm reacting to it.

As for the lack of friends issue, I totally feel you on that one. You're the only person other than Laura I know out here that I have any real connection with, someone I can truly call friend, and we've fallen away from each other due to the physical distance that's now between us, and this whiny bitch mode you've been in ever since this stuff with Laura and you started. I don't mind discussing your life's problems with you, but when every single time we

[wollyboy]

I think you are being a bit over the top with "when every single time we come into contact with you, you're whining about something", but thats ok. Everyone is entitled to there own opinion. And my "whiny bitch mode" has calmed down alot to. Life sucks, but I'm dealing with it, you just don't notice, because we haven't gotten together much, to my disapointment. I'd like to have something else to talk about, but not much happens to me. Wanna hear about my work? How about wrestling? Or Brian, and his Girlfriend? Well, hey, we have guild wars now, I'm back online, lets play some games. To you, I have changed. To me, you have changed. Who is right? We both are. I like the new you, we just don't talk as much as we used to. I'd like to change that. Come visit sometimes, just to chill, hmm? We could chat, play some games, or whatever. I miss the way you where, but I woulden't give up what we have now, even to go back to that.

[malkiegerl]

I'd say, "Well, you could do... the gaming spot thing." Or, go to bars, arcades, etc. I don't really know how to forge and keep friendships in that kind of situation, though, so no advice there. When you go to school it will be easier, because there are these things called study groups that form, and friendships can come through that, since the "common interest" thing is already there.

As far as our "group" goes, well, I have no magic fixes for the way things are, because if I did, I'd sure as hell use them.

[wollyboy]

Thanks. :)
Ya, school will help. I hope you, and Gary, and shucks, anyone else who's interested, would be willing to come with, it could be alot of fun! Let's get together to talk about it for real sometime.

[krayzj77]

The crazy thing about life and growing older is that things change. Sometimes friendships fizzle out, and as crappy as that may be, 10 years down the line or so it won't really matter.

As for the friendship that you and I have - you have to admit that its come along way. Since we don't really have much in common, its not like we're going to be instant best friends overnight. But if its meant to happen, it'll happen. However, if its not working, then we just need to say its not working. I can't say either will happen. Only time can tell that.

If you'd like my advice on your life, then let me know and we'll sit down and talk. You can listen, take what you want out of it (if any) and discard the rest or put it away for safe keeping.

[wollyboy]

I agree with you on all points. And thank you for offering advice, too. I'm sure I'll take you up on it sometime. On a side note, let's get together sometime, and if we can stop by my family's apt. I can borrow some of Bill's anime, and we can try that. Who knows? You may like it. ;)

[krayzj77]

BTW - welcome back to LiveJournal. Its good to see you here.

[wollyboy]

I'll try to stick around longer this time. Thanks :)