You would think I was in a bad mood based on the thoughts running through my mind the last few weeks. I've been mostly negative in my thoughts lately with very little positive thoughts floating around. I'm not really in a bad mood at the moment but I figured I'd rant about a few of the negative thoughts. Maybe it'll help clear up the clutter in my
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Isn't being Jewish sort of like a heritage? Another of my friends is Jewish but doesn't believe in God..when she mentions she is it's like she's talking about a heritage or something (sorry if I sound ignorant!)
Sorry you're having to deal with mean people and negativity *hugs*
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Thanks, stupid people suck :)
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I love Twilight, but in all seriousness, RPattz killed my love of the series. I can't stand him as Edward. XD
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Sorry you're having such a hard time at the moment, how can someone be so mean about you being an atheist? I don't understand how people can be like that about their religion, one of the common elements of all religions (at least that's the way it seems to me) is tolerance and love for other people!
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That's exactly why I don't think religion is 100% terrible. It's a shame other people, who claim to follow their religion correctly, are full of hate for other people.
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Re: religion and kids, everyone should mind their own damn business about your choices.
Re: shallow guys, fuck 'em. Regardless of how much weight you want to lose, you deserve somebody who accepts you the way you are right now, who will love and support you either way. Such a person shouldn't be that hard to find, in theory. I get hit on way more than I'd like to (by both women and men) and I'm probably the same size as you... I can start packing these people up and sending them your way? Please, I don't want them!
Re: Twilight... Don't even apologize for not liking it. It's bad writing, plain and simple. =P
You look gorgeous in that pic.
Okay, I think I'm done. ^_^
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Haha, I'm glad somebody enjoys them! I figured I sounded like a whiny bitch but I'm glad somebody doesn't think so :B
I met a guy that thought I was gorgeous the way I was. I was so excited over the prospect of a guy that likes how I look. I mentioned I wanted to get more healthy and lose weight, he immediately said adios. Seems he likes girls fat and wouldn't "tolerate" me if I got to a healthy size.
Sure, send them my way. Haha. Maybe it's my location, LA as a general rule is notoriously shallow. Sure there's exceptions but...yeah, it's LA.
Lmao, did I apologize for not liking it? I tried to make a point to not. It is bad writing and to me the idea of Bella thinking it sexy that Edward watches her sleep at night is downright scary, stalker much?
Aww, thank you ^.^
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Wanting a woman BECAUSE she is fat is just as offensive as not wanting her for that reason. People need to be able to appreciate bodily diversity. I have been attracted to women who are size 4 and 14 and 24, with all different proportions. I have certain preferences (like dark hair and eyes, and strong noses) but even those aren't completely set in stone. People need to learn to appreciate the person, and the packaging, which may very well vary over time.
I've heard that LA (and California in general) is a different world and that even a size 12 is considered huge there. But a lot of it is the circles you run with too. Look for geeky, artsy, intellectual people... They tend to be the most open-minded, and just the best in general. =P
Twilight is giving millions of young girls the WRONG idea about what's okay in a relationship. Eww.
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I agree. If a guy likes my looks and then turns around and says he won't support me if I want to get healthy..that's terrible!
Size 12 is borderline plus size here. It's just awful, I've actually been in stores where 24-34 sizes are labeled the "fat girl" section (the sign actually says 'fat girl'). Ugh! Even if I lost all my weight and got to a nice curvy size I'd be considered fat here, it's awful. I definitely look for geeky and intellectual people, they tend to look beyond boobs and hair and see the personality.
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I completely agree with you about religion. It's interesting how defensive people can get about it. My family is pretty agnostic (except my sister), but if I talk about there being no god, my parents are very uncomfortable. My mom even said something about 'other' atheists (not me) being immoral or something. It does seem like Birthright may have had some religious bias toward you. That phone conversation seems suspect.
I also have no idea why people think everyone should have kids. I think that's a silly way of thinking.
Ugh that sucks about shallow guys. You never know when you'll find a good one though. My friend Lynn dated for over a year and went on several dates before she found her guy.
That is a very nice pic of you. :)
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They asked me a few more questions including why I wanted to go to Israel. They were heavily hinting that they wanted a more religious answer. I lied through my teeth and said that I thought Israel might help me get in touch with my spiritual side. I'm plenty spiritual but Mother Nature brings that side out of me, I'm just interested in Israel because I'm into history and anthropology and Israel is a great country for both subjects.
I hope to meet somebody :)
Thank you!
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