How does it feel to treat me like you do?

Aug 18, 2011 16:30

Extending from my last post... Ecamer spoke with the inlaws this morning. They claimed that Kindergoth has stated she doesn't like to be home alone with me. They said that they would allow Kindergoth to stay home Saturdays, Sundays, and Mondays... days when Ecamer is off work and at home as well.

I feel like I am dealing with children and family ( Read more... )

school, kin, inlaws, kindergoth, job search

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ex_logospil August 19 2011, 00:10:50 UTC
I am so sorry that you are being treated like that, most beloved... Hang in there, eh?

*gathers you in a very tender robed embrace*

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raven_moon August 19 2011, 02:16:59 UTC
Man - this sucks for you. I am so sorry that your partner is siding against you in this - I'm pretty damned sure that's NOT what partners are supposed to do.... I am also sure Kindergoth has been/is being heavily influenced, and I am equally sure that, whatever their intentions, that influence is upsetting, confusing, and not doing her any good at all. I wish I had some pithy, insightful advice to give you. Sadly I have no idea what to tell you - I only know I'd be a total wreck in your shoes. Stay strong, sweetie, and remember to breathe.... *hugs*

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annietopia August 19 2011, 03:03:39 UTC
Does not want to make waves? Does he realize that "waves" that will happen if/when you move out? While I get when a spouse does not want to get involved in some inlaw issues, this would be one that cannot be ignored. I am so very sorry.

And please do not take anything personal with Kindergoth. You are not hearing these statements directly from her which makes them questionable. AND if she does say such things, I have to question some brain washing going on.

*hugs*

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velvetechos August 19 2011, 18:23:49 UTC
This is pretty much what I came here to say. What utter and complete bullshit. Is there 211 equivalent in your area, perhaps you could find someone to talk to? They cannot dictate when and if you are *allowed* time with *YOUR* child.

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