Self-presentation advice?

[wired_lizard]

Those of you who are active kinky:

I am going to a play party tomorrow evening. I'm going as a single bottom, probably younger and less experienced than most there, who is relatively reticent about approaching people. Now, I'm obviously not going to haul my entire box-o-gear there. (This is, like, HALF of it; well, maybe more than half by bulk,

Comments

[oakenguy]

I, a stereotypical Virgo, wouldn't bring things because I'd be nervous all night about them getting dirty or stepped on or me forgetting them, but Your Mileage Definitely Varies.

Still rocking the YMMV theme, while a collar probably looks really good on you, I'd avoid it because of how often it's a symbolic thing. Cuffs instead?

[iibnf]

If you wear a collar, you won't be approached, you'll be assumed taken. At least that's the way it works here.

opinions

[mytheria]

1: no collar (you'll get more interest)
2: take a few favorites in a bag, but tuck a list in there too (just so you can be sure you bring home all you took)
3: if you are feeling too shy, ask the host if they'd play yenta, and point you at the right people to talk to (an introduction is your friend)

[triedandwired]

Oooo have fun!

[quigonejinn]

(There is no reason to put this in a parenthenses, but they are infectious.)

(You are probably there now hopefully having fun. And/or eating chips. I hope you didn't end up too red from the sun at lunch.)