It's understandable. IT's just more of a lack of communication and such in general. I was having a really bad night when I posted this, and what a certain person did there that inspired the ranting was just really the icing on the cake.
I think Sera has just failed in general (sorry, dear, if you happen to read this) And actually Numi said she would stick around, but she doesn't talk to me much. :/ She was made a mod after you left though, so....
Sweetie, in my experience, the main reason why people don't do the right thing and announce that they're dropping the RP is because it's so FINAL and they usually have a tendril of hope that just maybe RL might settle down enough to return or they might rekindle their interest or nothing better has come along after all or... any number of excuses. Sometimes they even WANT to continue, but somehow it never happens.
It sucks, but that's how it goes. I've been right in your shoes, hon, quite a few times. Sucks big time, but you'll continually have people who can't or won't make the big D (decision!) much less actually tell you about it. *sighs* *hugs*
It's probably just me, but I think there's a difference between dropping and thinking you'll come back and dropping and joining a new RP with the same journal without telling the mods of the old RP.
Not informing them in either situation sucks but in the latter case there should really be a giant "SMITE" button on keyboards to smack those types around as it not only sucks but it's downright rude.
Well, people can work on several RP at the same time... maybe the interest has waned a little in one and they get pulled into another? Yeah, they SHOULD wake up and formally quit the other, but bottom line...
It's just not going to happen.
I guess I'm way past getting pissed off at this sort of thing. Life is too short for me to lose my inner calm over something I can have so little control over. I can't make anyone do what I want them to do anyway, so for me, I just let this sort of stuff go and focus on something more pleasant. All anyone can really do is model the preferred behavior and hope they get a clue...
Not with the same journal they can't. AT least, none of the RPs I've journal will let you use your character journal in another game.
I just needed to vent. It angers me that people do that. If it was just *one* person that had done, understandable. But when a second person has done it, well...That's what pissed me off. I'm more calm about it now, but that doesn't mean that I still can't be annoyed by the people that do that
Definitely. I haven't had such a rewarding, enjoyable RP couple in a while. (Not counting Sakuno->Renji since it's onesided and will most likely stay that way...). ^.^
Yeah, that sounds like the fairest thing. And well... looks like Yamato will definitely have to go. Lack of canon info does that to you. =/
Considering Renji wasn't even sure if he wanted to be in a relationship when the game started...and was still having issues he should have gotten over years ago... (Well...It will unless Renji breaks up with his boyfriends...and even then, it might still be onesided. He doesn't think that's going to happen anytime, especially considering how sickly sweet him and Yukimura were being last night.)
Yeah, it can. Though I must have been psychic with Renji. I hit on canon info that didn't come out until after I'd established him. There used to be very little about him.
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What happened to the other mods there?
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I just feel a lot of fail about it right now.
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It sucks, but that's how it goes. I've been right in your shoes, hon, quite a few times. Sucks big time, but you'll continually have people who can't or won't make the big D (decision!) much less actually tell you about it. *sighs* *hugs*
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Not informing them in either situation sucks but in the latter case there should really be a giant "SMITE" button on keyboards to smack those types around as it not only sucks but it's downright rude.
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It's just not going to happen.
I guess I'm way past getting pissed off at this sort of thing. Life is too short for me to lose my inner calm over something I can have so little control over. I can't make anyone do what I want them to do anyway, so for me, I just let this sort of stuff go and focus on something more pleasant. All anyone can really do is model the preferred behavior and hope they get a clue...
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I just needed to vent. It angers me that people do that. If it was just *one* person that had done, understandable. But when a second person has done it, well...That's what pissed me off. I'm more calm about it now, but that doesn't mean that I still can't be annoyed by the people that do that
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But I think I'm still going to kick everyone out, and make everyone re-apply.
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Yeah, that sounds like the fairest thing. And well... looks like Yamato will definitely have to go. Lack of canon info does that to you. =/
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Yeah, it can. Though I must have been psychic with Renji. I hit on canon info that didn't come out until after I'd established him. There used to be very little about him.
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