Some hopefully vagely coherant thoughts :o)

[wight1984]

Thoughts: Self-esteem and Self-respect

Comments

[lulu_vampyre]

Oh yay its one of Jamies fabulous rambles:) tis true what you wrote about self esteem etc, but i think the problem would be is that it's alot easier to say than it is to do...:( xxx

[wight1984]

But yet so incredably simple, what one has to do is very simple, it's just a matter of pushing yourself.

And it becomes easier with pratice, it's just a matter of distracting yourself with other things if you're mind goes somewhere depressing, doing things to cheer yourself up, and pushing yourself to just not think about the way you look when you're out until you have the ego to do so.

It's not a matter of loving yourself over night, it's just a matter of slowly learning not to insult yourself all the time, seems like a good first step :o)

Be well,

[lulu_vampyre]

Lol don't think i'll ever have that much of an ego! shall always be slightly flagging ...is that a word? lol

I do try not to put myself down like for example i was really happy wth my outfit at sub last time but i didnt really like my hair but that was a criticism cause i didnt have time to straighten it lol. Ah well, its a working process and i am trying ^_^ be well hunni *hugs* xxxx

*hugs*

[wight1984]

Flagging is a word, I'm just not sure it means what you want it to :o)

Don't worry about 'not having much of an ego', it's enough to be content and accepting of who you are, no need to think you're perfect (people like that often start to get on people's nerves anyway) :o)

You'll be fine :o)

[xcandi_popsx]

needles_r_fun here with a new lj will you readd me plz xxx

:o)

[wight1984]

Sure thing