Le Sigh....

[whitewitch504]

Ok. So I get a call from the husband last night asking me not to use his name in my journal because someone could figure out who he is and have the wrong opinion of him because of the things I write. I have edited my profile to take out my email address and I have made it so my location does not show up on my User Info page. I was trying to make

Comments

[kiddstuff]

Sounds to me like "He who must not be named" is ashamed of his behavior rather than being slandered. I have a few ways we could refer to him, but they are not very nice.

Anyway, the Christmas party is Dec. 23 @ 7 pm. I am planning to get an e-vite out this week with details. I am glad you are going to be there! When are your rearranging? Depending on the schedule I can probably help.

[lizzie_borden16]

I'll help with any furniture moving, etc. I'm free evenings and during the day on Sat. & Sun.

[the_dman]

Nic and I are availabe too with enough notice to arrange it. The first couple weeks are busy for me @ work, and we have Cobra and Rahe xmas this weekend. Nicole knows our schedule better than me though. lol, hang in there sweets... "he who shall not be named" seems to be lashing out cause he has to do something to justify his actions to himself. I dont know if it is me or not, or if this is appropriate or not... but here it goes... If nicole cheated on me with the Navy, or stole my golf clubs and hocked them for some jimmy chew shoes, or anything that would want me to leave, I wouldnt. Even if I couldn't stand the sight of her I would stay for sebastian and "the one on the way". I couldnt see myself missing one day of their lives. At 18 or when the kids leave the house, then I would deal with the feelings between me and Nic. I dunno sweets... I think you are a strong person with so much to offer to your children. You just have to know that He is acting this way cause of his choices and whatever he says just let it roll off your back,

[little_mama525]

I concur w/ everyone. and the thought had occurred to me last week to watch what you write on here. I was afraid he would 'go there'. is it slander to simply say that a man who leaves his wife and children has his priorities in the wrong place especially when he won't consider going to counseling to work out any problems? for your sake, I hope this isn't the start to things getting nasty but it sounds like you need to start preparing for that. I'm so sorry Chica. I'm sorry that he can't be more of a man and deal w/ this maturely. and if he has issues w/ me saying that- tell him to bring it on. I was hurting for both of you at first but now I'm just getting pissed off. and you don't piss off a pregnant woman! I love you Hon. and fortunately your little ones have a wonderful stable mother to count on when their dad goes all crappy. if you need Anything...