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blahblahcakes64 in weddingplans

Mini-Rant Re: Flaky siblings.

Jun 21, 2011 23:55

Okay, a bit of context here: my younger sister (age 20) is my maid of honor, and she was a bit unenthusiastic about accepting the post, but I figured it's because she gets weird around romance, so I took it in stride.

( More sibling flakiness in here! )

dresses: bridesmaids, attendants: bridesmaids, attendants: moh, family drama

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spicytoys June 22 2011, 04:13:21 UTC

It doesn't sound like she is interested in it. I think you should find a different MOH. It will save you a lot of stress. :-/

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myhappyending June 22 2011, 11:01:23 UTC

This.

doeeyedbecky June 22 2011, 04:22:21 UTC

Yeah, I'd be asking her if she wants to do it. If she DOES say no, you have PLENTY of time to find a replacement.

blueskybreeze June 22 2011, 04:26:58 UTC

I feel like this happens with younger siblings, who may have not been to or been closely involved in a lot of weddings. A friend of mine had her 16 year old sister as her MOH and was always having to inform her on etiquette, expectations, etc.

I don't know if that is the case or not but maybe another family member could fill her in on what is expected of her?

smoopy_bitch June 22 2011, 05:22:13 UTC

My 20 year old sister is my MOH, but she has been a dream. She found her own adorable dress and is planning a fun/age appropriate bachelorette party for me (we're seeing a midnight showing of HP7 pt 2!)...my thoughts are that if she doesn't sound into the whole MOH thing, and is being really iffy about it, give her an out. Let her choose to be just a BM instead and choose a more with-it maid for MOH.

Just my .02.