You could have your's and your fiance's parents sit with you. As for the shower, your sister really needs to be the one to tell people, for you to do so would be really inappropriate. Tell your sister this.
We had both sets of parents and one set of grandparents (the only ones who could attend) at the head table. In regards to the shower, that's a toughie... I usually ask the bride what the attire is before I attend showers, but that's just me. If it's at a restaurant that is known as nice, I think most people will dress appropriately. I think she needs to spread the word herself, but it's not really fair for her to get upset if someone wears jeans, as she didn't put the info on the invitation.
i would say your and your fiance's parents and closest family should sit with you. however, is there a possibility of just doing a sweetheart table, if you wanted it to be just the two of you (and your daughter).
about the shower- i think that sounds awkward and she should have put something on the invite. maybe just slowly spread the word in as nice of a way as possible and ask others to spread the word.
I think the dress thing is entirely up to her, if she cares about it: she can boss everyone around, or nicely inform them of a 'dress code', but IN NO WAY is it *your* job, in my opinion, especially since you personally do not care about the dress code--
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about the shower- i think that sounds awkward and she should have put something on the invite. maybe just slowly spread the word in as nice of a way as possible and ask others to spread the word.
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