You don't need to be worried, I'm sure he'll tell you when he's ready. That is unless you don't *feel* like he loves you? Us men are strange creatures and it could be as simple as he just hasn't thought to say it yet.
No, i definately feel like he does. But we've talked about it before when i've sort of said it, and i've just told him to say it when he's ready. And he hasn't yet.. so i dunno, just feel like i could be wasting my time a bit.
My ex Joe didn't tell me for a year. He told me he'd never told anyone before and wanted to make sure it was what he was feeling. He told like a million girls i'm just a gullable shit and believed him. But ... sometimes to different people its better its awaited as when it is said it means so much. I dont think you should be worried. If he didn't have feelings for you, you wouldn't be together right? <3 X
Yeah i guess your right. He did say that when he says it, he means it. And because he's been hurt so much he says he holds out just that little bit longer before he says it. But that was in January when he said that! Surely if he holds back much longer i'm going to start thinking i'm wasting my time on something that's never going to go anywhere! :(
Those three little words mean so much to some people and then so little to others and they have the ability to change something in a huge way. I agree with Stacey, you shouldn't be worried he is probably just trying to sort out his feelings etc. You could always asking him how he feels just try not to pressure him. It's a toughie, but I don't think you have any need to worry.
No i know, i'm trying to put it to the back of my mind. Which seems to be working at the moment. I did dump him over it near my birthday cos i thought he didn't care and i was wasting my time. But he told me to stop being stupid and sort of brought me back down to earth. And since then i haven't spazzed out about it. I just think of it sometimes. I guess maybe i fall in love a bit too easy.. obviously he's different, i'm not liking it much :( I don't like that i can't say 'i love you' because i know he won't say it back and i don't want to look a fool.
tell him anyway, you can always follow it with a 'i know you're not ready to sayit back but I just wanted you to know anyway'. That way he doesnt feel pressured, you can say it to make you feel better and who knows it may make him want to say it.
I daren't say it, see, we're both as bad as each other. I daren't say it, he's probably the same, but he KNOWS i'll say it back.. so he hasn't anything to be scared of.. argh, what a mess.
Maybe he's waiting to tell you on Saturday? Because of it being an anniversary? That would be my first guess, I'd start to think more about it if he hasn't said it afterwards.
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I'm sure he will :)
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That'll get him back in line. You need to kick things up every now and then ;) That's the nature of all relationships.
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But that was in January when he said that! Surely if he holds back much longer i'm going to start thinking i'm wasting my time on something that's never going to go anywhere! :(
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I guess maybe i fall in love a bit too easy.. obviously he's different, i'm not liking it much :( I don't like that i can't say 'i love you' because i know he won't say it back and i don't want to look a fool.
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