Bless you, New York Times

[viruswshoes]

Questions Couples Should Ask (Or Wish They Had) Before Marrying

Not posting this to seem persnickety or holier-than-thou ("Who do you think you are, Miss Not Getting Married Any Time Soon?!"). These all seem like very concrete questions to pose before entering into any serious relationship.
Just sayin'.

Comments

[lethe555]

this makes me happy

[viruswshoes]

I'm glad to hear that. :)
I'll see you tomorrow evening, yes?

[lethe555]

yes, tomorrow, unless you are too tired. Call and cancel please if you are though.

[viruswshoes]

I think I should be fine to attend, though I can't promise I'll stay for too long.

Oh. Fuck. Yeah.

[buddhafiddle]

Aboslutely. toserveabq (The Beloved Spouse) and I knew the answers to all of these before we got married, and I still think we should have discussed some of them far more before we lived together or got married.

#1 is absolutely crucial, and (I think) should be discussed long before cohabiting at all.

There were four or five of these issues on which the answer one of us gave the other was less-than satisfactory. We went into the marriage knowing that. If we found it out after the wedding, the shock could well have broken us up.

[pellucidus]

I think the thing I like the most is that the print friendly version is sponsered by "Consider Borat."