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[vidataboo]

A lot of stuff's happened which I haven't spoken about to many people, some of you will know. But I've come to the conclusion that I could never be a perfect mother, and no child deserves to be brought into this world anyway.

I don't know how to tell Pad, though.

Am I a bad person?

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[mrsnwire]

I'm here if you want to talk. xx

[bexeh]

this is the first post of your LJ ive read but i can tell were on the lines of termination! Your not a bad person, everyones definition of bad is different and if you dont want to bring a baby into this world then the people who will brand you as a bad person are the people who dont deserve your time and energy!

If you dont want a child it is entirely your decision, of course you need tyo discuss it with the other person involved but if he wants it he needs to give one hell of a good reason why!

Whatever you do the act will always be deemed wrong but the intention is what counts and ur intention is for the best!

am i making sense or am i just rambling? either way i hope it helps!

[unrestricted]

I added you back.. my old name was Shelli251

[shuhoniuo]

You're not a bad person. Noone can be a perfect mother, this is not a perfect world. However you could be a wonderful mother if you wanted to be.
I lost a baby 6 weeks ago, I didn't even know I was pregnant. I think I know how youre feeling.

Good luck xxx