I don't know if you're aware of this but I have a weekly blog on Best Gay Blogs.com. And I've touched on the dating issue several times. If you need help with the new blog, or promoting it let me know.
I would LOVE you as a contributor! I have a lot of ideas kicking around right now-- probably too many so after my spastic brainstorming settles down I'll definately hit you up.
I've been telling people I don't want a boyfriend, and that is not really a lie. But it's also not really true. It's just the easy option. I look forward to your research netting me a hot new man. Thank you in advance.
Confounding MysterywalterwzDecember 28 2007, 22:57:55 UTC
By my reckoning, you are prime husband material, at least prime lover material. Extremely attractive, young and intelligent. The intelligence might be a problem. It is the only one I can think of or imagine.
I think your idea is fantastic. We are definitely experiencing some sociological phenomenon. The basic social skills of relating seem to be an endangered species.
It seems, nowadays, a good night out does not get any better than a bad David Lynch movie.
The cocooning thing is bad. I am no one to criticize though. You know that it is bad when running around a virtual world interacting with tunes is far more interesting that the "real" counterpart.
Re: Confounding MysteryvergenceDecember 28 2007, 23:19:05 UTC
It's not intelligence. Guys who would be turned off by it aren't smart enough to hold my interest and it's something that's not immediately apparent durning the search phase. It's far easier for a smart person to recognize someone whose interests are banal than a less intelligent person to guage what a smart person's interests even signify.
I really think most of my problem is that I refuse to be agressive in meeting new people while my current social network remains stagnant.
I've skirted the issue of it many times and always analyzed my way out of having to approach a guy and say, "You're cute." unless he was giving me indisputable signals. And I certainly have been poor in trying to hang out with new circles of people.
But generally it all feels harder than it should be.
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I would LOVE you as a contributor! I have a lot of ideas kicking around right now-- probably too many so after my spastic brainstorming settles down I'll definately hit you up.
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I came to the rather depressing realization recently that I didn't date anyone new in 2007...
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I've been telling people I don't want a boyfriend, and that is not really a lie. But it's also not really true. It's just the easy option. I look forward to your research netting me a hot new man. Thank you in advance.
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I have no specific comment that requires verbalization. Just have a gander at that page.
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I think your idea is fantastic. We are definitely experiencing some sociological phenomenon. The basic social skills of relating seem to be an endangered species.
It seems, nowadays, a good night out does not get any better than a bad David Lynch movie.
The cocooning thing is bad. I am no one to criticize though. You know that it is bad when running around a virtual world interacting with tunes is far more interesting that the "real" counterpart.
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durning the search phase. It's far easier for a smart person to recognize someone whose interests are banal than a less intelligent person to guage what a smart person's interests even signify.
I really think most of my problem is that I refuse to be agressive in meeting new people while my current social network remains stagnant.
I've skirted the issue of it many times and always analyzed my way out of having to approach a guy and say, "You're cute." unless he was giving me indisputable signals. And I certainly have been poor in trying to hang out with new circles of people.
But generally it all feels harder than it should be.
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