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[velorwen]

I've read that the difference between the way men and women approach sex is that men are visual creatures and women are verbal....

I think that it is more that men approach sex as HOW? and women are thinking WHY?

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Comments

[entrustedlove]

I approach it as how can I make it happen! ;) But, that is just me.

[ulesegisa]

You might think about this in terms of "masculine" and "feminine" as I've met men (IR1) who think about "why" they're having sex (not that isn't to say that I don't come to the conclusion that the why is to have an orgasm but that also ranges in diversity to "because I want to share my love with my partner on an intimate level that is more than just words. I want to share my spirit with her") And I have a long line of women in my life who are very much about the "how".. as in what is the scenario tonight, how can we do something fun or interesting, or even "what would I have to do to get you 'in the mood'?" that last question has been said to me more than once... as I'm not 18 anymore and walking around with a constant erection I actually have to be "in the mood" or "gotten, in the mood".. but then again ...see masculine / feminine

[velorwen]

*grin*

I knew if I left it open like that I would get some interesting comments! -really, I was just too lazy tired to elaborate-