Vegan Wedding + Dilemma

[____hissunshine]

Does anyone have any good information for catering at a Vegan Wedding? Any good sites? Also any good bakery or caterers in the bay area? I live near SF

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[polyphonicvegan]

I've never had one but Millennium's wedding cakes are probably amazing (everything in that restaurant is).

I would go with your fiance's advice...

[polyphonicvegan]

On second thought, that would be my inner jerk talking...yeaaah, you're stuck unless you get lucky. Good luck. :/

PS
I'd love it if you posted a list of local vegan resources (as you develop it) for your wedding! I'm always curious about this topic.

[moonlitdorian]

There is no polite way to un-ask someone to be in a wedding party.

[malloreigh]

yeah, she'll probably be pretty hurt and/or pissed... but hey, if you're never going to talk to her again, it's not such a huge deal.

[hallwayjulie]

haha oh man. i don't think miss manners has ever addressed rescinding an invite to be in a bridal party. you're kind of stuck, unless you truly think you'll never see her again.

[____hissunshine]

Oh and wedding isn't till june. I just asked her a few days ago, and she can still come to the wedding! Should I tell her soon, or let her kinda forget about it and tell her more in december or before she leaves to go the NY for a week in November? Fiance says I should tell her sooner, but I don't want to live with someone pissed at me!

[socraticomatic]

Tell her sooner, you don't her to make plans around being in your bridal party, just to have you rescind that invitation.

[starile]

Tell her now. Let her know it was kind of spur-of-the-moment and that you hadn't you didn't know your fiance only had 3 groomsmen. Reassure her that you'd still love her to be at the wedding and it'd mean so much to you, but making all the necessary preparations to accomodate an extra bridesmaid is proving ____ [too hard on you and your family].

Don't wait, she's NOT going to "just forget". The longer she has it in her mind that she's going to be a bridesmaid, the harder it will be to tell her later and the more hurt she will be. Get her before she tells all her friends and family that she's a bridesmaid!

You can do it. In the end, it'll be ok.

[all_laced_in]

Black China Bakery in Santa Cruz is AMAZING!! They did our wedding cake. If you go to Herbivore in the city and get the german chocolate cake, that is there cake. So good!