comments on SPN S3

May 16, 2008 13:16

Look at the tags. Consider what you know about me. Move on if all you want is squee and flail.

comments on supernatural season 3, spoilers to the end of it )

women! know your limits!, spn:meta, supernatural, spn:s3

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cofax7 May 16 2008, 16:32:24 UTC
Part of the reason is that it was exactly the ending I expected, and have expected for the past few weeks

Yes, this. Narratively and, um, show-ly (in the sense of this being a show told on television in a certain format with seasons and hiatuses and so forth), it had to end with Dean dead. Therefore I was more divorced from the emotion, just watching what would happen next.

W/rt to the misogyny issue, I have mostly been able to divorce my distaste for the writing from my fondness for Dean, but I am definitely finding myself growing away from the characters.

This is how one gives up a fandom, isn't it? Sigh.

I do feel very much out of step with the fandom, since my flist is covered with squeeing and flailing (except for you & Vee).

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se_parsons May 16 2008, 16:41:42 UTC
I have seen almost no squeeing and flailing. But then I hang over here in the corner with the people who go after it from a narrative standpoint rather than a strictly fannish one.

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vaznetti May 16 2008, 17:00:55 UTC
W/rt to the misogyny issue, I have mostly been able to divorce my distaste for the writing from my fondness for Dean, but I am definitely finding myself growing away from the characters.

I had no idea that it had impacted my opinion of the characters as opposed to my opinion of the show. Maybe that just means I'm kind of dense, I'm not sure. And I can completely enjoy a show for the story while loathing some of the characters, so I don't know that I'm giving up or anything, but I do find that I'm not engaging emotionally. Which is sad.

But then, it's probably a miracle that I'm still here two years after John died.

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mhalachaiswords May 16 2008, 16:32:34 UTC
I'm with you. When was the last time there was a female character on the show who wasn't a demon, a total victim, or portrayed as the evil bitch (Bella, I'm looking at you)? On my side, it leaves me with almost zero to identify with. I don't have anything in common with the characters, guest-starring or lead, and I'm starting to like it that way.

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vaznetti May 16 2008, 16:57:45 UTC
I realized that it was interfering with my enjoyment of the show, but somehow it didn't quite occur to me that it was also interfering with my liking for the main characters. I don't know why, really.

The kind of sad thing is that all they really needed was to keep more of Ellen and Jo in the show, as a counterbalance -- give Ellen one of Bobby's "helper" roles, for example, or a shared hunt, or something, and it would have reminded me that really, the characters aren't as hateful as I'd come to think.

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se_parsons May 16 2008, 16:39:16 UTC
I'm still invested in Dean, but I'm getting to care less about him all the time if misogyny really IS going to be a character trait ( ... )

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vaznetti May 16 2008, 17:08:30 UTC
The thing is that I can watch a show for the story without really caring anything about the main characters, and I do still like the story in SPN -- especially if next season we get a lot of Sam and his possibly demonic powers. But if they keep up the misogyny, even that may not hold me.

I think it's crazy that they keep trying to introduce female characters and then dropping them, even when they work. It just seems dumb and wasteful.

As for the Edlund issue -- I don't pay attention to who wrote what episode, so I'm sure you're right. But I also feel that TV shows are made by committee, and a lot of people contribute to the final product. So it doesn't seem right to me to hold just one guy responsible, since sure, he may have done the writing, but there are a whole host of other people involved in the show -- writers, directors, producers -- who have let all that sexism slide.

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loligo May 16 2008, 16:56:48 UTC
In most of S1 and S2 I felt I could say with some confidence that Dean likes and respects women.Yeah. The only reason I'm not where you are now with regard to the show is that I can hold onto initial characterizations pretty tenaciously when I don't see the changes as being organic to the story. I've managed a whole season of "BZZT! Wrong! Dean wouldn't really say that!" and I can probably squeeze out another half a season before it really starts to wear me down and I start feeling compelled to integrate the crap into my view of his character ( ... )

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musesfool May 16 2008, 17:00:17 UTC
I can hold onto initial characterizations pretty tenaciously when I don't see the changes as being organic to the story. I've managed a whole season of "BZZT! Wrong! Dean wouldn't really say that!"

Yes. This. It bothers me, but I just excise it when I write him, so I can kind of keep the Dean in my head and the Dean of season 3 separate. Of course, I also don't believe he doesn't know a lot of the shit they have him not knowing, so it's helpful in other ways, too.

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vaznetti May 16 2008, 18:32:09 UTC
I agree that the changes don't seem organic to me, but I guess I ran into my "Dean would never say that!" limit at some point this season. Maybe it's just as well that it was only 16 episodes!

Neither of these are necessarily going to cause big problems when he's dealing with women he likes and respects, but they'll turn toxic with women who are Bad and Evil (in part because being "bad" is a betrayal of idealized womanhood).

I see what you mean by this, and I think that if we'd had more balance in the kinds of women seen on the show I would be more tolerant of Dean's attitude toward Bela and Ruby (although I still find the sexualization of his attacks on Ruby weird) if I had anything else in the text to remind me that Dean doesn't think that all women are evil skanks who are only getting what's coming to them. I mean, seriously, a guest appearance by Ellen would probably have done a lot to reconcile to me to what we got.

I think that I'm a little surprised that the writing is so bad that it's made me stop caring about a character ( ... )

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veejane May 16 2008, 17:03:49 UTC
I now look at Dean and think, "yeah, he'd definitely smack a woman around."

Not having watched last night's episode, that's the thing I've been dealing with. I don't want to think of him that way, and I don't want to look back on earlier episodes and feel like they're fraudulent, like they're the clever come-ons of somebody who secretly hates me-the-viewer in the midst of his attraction.

Which would be why I can't watch old episodes right now.

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vaznetti May 16 2008, 18:58:41 UTC
I was wondering if we were having similar issues. It's very disturbing; I haven't tried watching earlier episodes (I've lent my DVDs out, and only have the first season anyway) but I would be pretty sad if I could just never like Dean again, even in his S1 persona. Because they're practically two different people.

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veejane May 16 2008, 20:28:49 UTC
Yeah, I have a palatable Dean in my head, based on my own fanfic, but at this point, I'm beginning to wonder if I should be considering him an original character.

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