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[varymydays]

This is special locked, but I more went down my list and added just about anyone but the person I am fretting about, cause it could get awkward if they came back and saw me being all WAUGH, are they dead?

So I've been friends with emilystarr1 for like 4 or 5 years now? We started off exchanging e-mails back then. She helped me out with some issues that I was

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[smarmyelf]

You totally aren't being ridiculous for being worried. I've done that a few times. But to a more ridiculous degree. But I know how much it sucks only being able to rely on technology to know how someone is doing.

I suppose there's not much more you can do though, you know? Except for wait for a reply... Which sucks the worst. Not having much control over anything. I hope you get a response soon, though. :-\ Is there anyone else you could contact who knew her, and perhaps has some information on where she is/how she's doing?

Anyway. *hugs* I'll be sending you many good thoughts. ♥ ♥ ♥

[varymydays]

It really does suck, because it's hard to gauge when is a correct time to worry and when am I only being silly. Plus, if something does happen, you'll never know the details. It would be an unanswered question for someone you care so much about. ><

Yeah, waiting sucks, but there's nothing else that can be done. :/ I don't know of anyone that I can contact. I don't even know her last name. I know she lives in Canada, but I'm not certain where exactly.

Thank you! *hugs* I appreciate it! <333

[baileysicecream]

i freak out about shit like this too.

i say call her. if you're really that close, she'd be pleased to know you were thinking about her and were worried.

i'd rather have someone be paranoid b/c they hadn't heard from me in 2-3 weeks than not hear from someone in 5 months and then have them be like oh yeah...you.

[varymydays]

I would call her, but I don't have her number anymore. She had a landline/home phone and we used to talk everyday on the phone, but she moved and we haven't talked on the phone since she moved. Or else, I'd definitely be calling.

Thanks for the comment though, hon. <333

[yetregressing]

You aren't being ridiculous. I left for like a week and people were freaking out, with cause. (I was fine, but yeah. I will never forget to tell the internet that I am going anywhere ever again.) Three weeks with zero contact, especially after you've sent her an email, is cause to worry.

I love you. I hope that she emails you back soon, and that everything is well. If you need anything, email/text/call/IM me, okay? <33333

[varymydays]

Yeah. I mean, she sometimes isn't around the internet much, but again, she usually sends out an e-mail to me to let me know that she's either sick or hurting or exhausted.

Thank you. I love you, too. And I hope so as well. I will. I appreciate the offer so much. <333

[calculusletters]

Give her a month from the time you sent the email to start really, really worrying.

As she has chronic health issues, that's a healthy amount of time for her to have had an inpatient hospital visit and enough recovery time to get back to the internet. Anything longer than that is obviously much more of a problem.

But remember you're not ridiculous for being worried. The fact that you're worried is healthy and normal. It shows how much you care. It's hard, being out of control and out of the loop like that. But pray she's healthy, just not able to get to the computer in this time. All else you can do is wait, unfortunately.

[varymydays]

Okay, thank you! I don't know the details of her health issues so I don't really know what to expect with that, but so thank you for giving me like some kind of time frame to go by.

I will try to remember that. I have a tendency to fret over people I care about and I get paranoid about things happening to them. Usually, I never end up being right so I feel silly for panicking, but. Thanks. I will be praying that hardcore. Hopefully, in a month, I will hear from her. I'm not going to think ahead of that, trying to figure out what I should do if I don't. Not yet.