Comments | vanillafluffy: Monday, mourning

vanillafluffy

Monday, mourning

Jan 24, 2011 18:33

I've spent the last couple days in a daze, trying to come to grips with Susie's passing. A chunk of Saturday was taken up with helping T and J write an obituary. As I found out with Kat's death, they charge for those by the line, but T uttered the three most dangerous words in the English language: "I don't care." So I smoothed out his rough draft ( Read more... )

r.i.p., s

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Down we go... kukkurkurat January 25 2011, 01:09:06 UTC

I am so sorry about all this, you definitely lost someone who have been there for years and years. I am so-so sorry *hugs*
It seems that my classmate committed suicide due to clinical depression. No one has said anything like that but the blaring hints are there...
And it is a commemorative service, the body is already cremated - which is not a common thing around here. Uh... great year beginning as the last year. WHAT is going on?

Re: Down we go... vanillafluffy January 25 2011, 02:32:20 UTC

Susie is also being cremated...T says he's going to install the ashes in their backyard with Macs's. Um...she'd probably be good with that, but I suspect he'll never sell the house because of it.

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Re: Down we go... kukkurkurat January 25 2011, 13:30:53 UTC

If he does not spread them and puts them to 'bed' in the urn, that may be problematic, yes.

Re: Down we go... vanillafluffy January 25 2011, 14:34:06 UTC

As the sign outside the funeral home says, Remains to be seen....

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vanillafluffy January 25 2011, 02:35:09 UTC

I guess I'm doing something right, then. I don't want to burn my f'list out with too much Drama.

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jagfanlj January 25 2011, 01:46:01 UTC

It isn't a downer, honey. It's a beautiful testimony to friendship. My thoughts are with you. *hugs*

vanillafluffy January 25 2011, 02:40:18 UTC

Thanks, honey. She could be exasperating, but she was never ambivalent. She always let you know *exactly* what she thought.

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gwylliondream January 25 2011, 04:21:10 UTC

Nice job, vf. And it's not a downer, it's part of life. Everyone will go through these emotions at some point.

Hang in there! You're doing the best you can.

vanillafluffy January 25 2011, 04:46:55 UTC

Thanks. Fortuitiously, my season one DVDs of Justified have arrived, and I've been able to distract myself somewhat with Boyd and Raylan. Oh joy, just nine more days!