Hurt and dissapointed...

[vangiechelle]

So, now that I've finally wrote my story and how is it that I am where I'm standing today, I can finally write about what currently goes on in my life

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[moreofthose]

And that's when the messages stopped too?

[vangiechelle]

well, he sent me one last very hot pic. i sent him one back. he had been quiet for a few days before he sent me the last pic. and he didn't say much after the last one i sent him, but a big wooooowwwwww, but nothing more. then we didn't talk for a few more days. then he said he had been busy at work, and blah, blah, blah. we didn't message for a few more days and that's when i sent him the message asking if he really wanted to meet somewhere someday.

we used to talk about everything! of course, our favorite conversations were about sex and things we wanted to do to each other. but that stopped. my last message to him was that i respected his opinion and that i would at least like to be his friend, and that's it. :(

[moreofthose]

My guess would be that he wants more than just a good fuck and he interrupted communication completely because he realized he most likely won't get what he wants. But well, that's just elaborate guessing based on what I know about male humans.
You should talk to him. Just sit down and talk. That solves problems quite efficiently.

[vangiechelle]

Actually, I would LOVE to be able to sit down and talk with him. But for some reason, we never seem to find a place and a time to do it. We see each other briefly, when he comes into my building and then when he goes back to his building. And we had been very discreet here at work.

Friday, I had emailed him, and told him that I was going out with my girlfriends on Saturday night and to see if maybe he wanted to meet somewhere, strickly as friends. He emailed me back saying he had a water rafting tour to do during the day and that he was going somewhere else at night.

I don't know, I think he's afraid of me, and maybe the things that could evolve?

Sometimes the best intentions can b misunderstood.

[flslurp]

Yup, there is nothing wrong with a good fuck, and I don't know that I would have the strength of character to do what your friend did (especially if we had exchanged naughty pictures). It could be, however, that he thinks he is protecting you by not giving in to his desire.

Almost everyone who has cheated on a partner can probably tell you that at some point they felt really guilty about doing so. I think that's the main reason I haven't actually cheated again (although I have come mighty close). It could be that he thought he was trying to protect you from those feelings, and never realized how it would leave you feeling undesirable.

Re: Sometimes the best intentions can b misunderstood.

[vangiechelle]

thanks flslurp,
that makes me feel a little better. It IS a possibility that he has brains, and they're not in his balls (sorry, not trying to offend any of you)

he has come to my building today quite a few times. I'm in the front of the building, so I always get to see him if he has to come over. He has looked at me many more times that he has been in the last week. But for now, I'm trying to be less social with him. I feel like maybe I sounded way too desperate in my last few messages, and maybe that made him uncomfortable? So, I guess I'm playing the "i'm not so crazy for you" game, if that makes sense.
UGH! I feel like I'm in high school, playing stupid games with the guys I liked...

[kjnk]

Why can't I find a female who just wants to fuck and has naked pictures!!!! Just kidding.... But anyway...it is difficult to be in either of those positions ( no pun intended ). I think you need to be mentally strong and maybe he is thinking with his brain.

Hang in there!!

[vangiechelle]

hahaha....