I wish I had some good advice for how to deal with your dad =( *hugs*
I can understand not being over the thing with pam. It's HARD to reach out to someone, and to kind of be rejected like that must have hurt esp. when you were already hurting.
I dunno about your dad but your mom, everyone seems to react to sadness/depression that way, or in my experience they do. Try not to take it to heart. I think that some are just, awkward around such emotions and try to block them or brush them off. It sucks. As for Pam, I agree with you. You can't blame her if you won't tell her flat out. I can't do that either when I need help so I get you on that but the fact remains. People can't read your mind; you have to speak up. I've dealt enough with people who act pissy with me after the fact because they've expected me to just magically know what's up and how it should be handled. World ain't like that. You need put voice to need or it's not met. But I also agree she could of handled it a little better/ put some effort into it. Why did she leave? =( SHE LEFT US +breaks down on poodle+ And why in the world is he come there? o.O
My dad does shit like that. He'll tell mom all about how he doesn't like something I'm doing, but he won't tell me. I think us daughters intimidate the dads, sometimes.
About the whole shit goign around. Yea happens in my family
My brother went to see my grandparents, and my father. They bitched to my brother about how I don't call, and they told him to tell me to call THEM. Bullshitmuthafuckeres. Ugh, I hate that we're related sometimes..
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I can understand not being over the thing with pam. It's HARD to reach out to someone, and to kind of be rejected like that must have hurt esp. when you were already hurting.
I'm sorry. I hope you feel better.
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As for Pam, I agree with you. You can't blame her if you won't tell her flat out. I can't do that either when I need help so I get you on that but the fact remains. People can't read your mind; you have to speak up. I've dealt enough with people who act pissy with me after the fact because they've expected me to just magically know what's up and how it should be handled. World ain't like that. You need put voice to need or it's not met. But I also agree she could of handled it a little better/ put some effort into it.
Why did she leave? =( SHE LEFT US +breaks down on poodle+
And why in the world is he come there? o.O
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My brother went to see my grandparents, and my father. They bitched to my brother about how I don't call, and they told him to tell me to call THEM. Bullshitmuthafuckeres. Ugh, I hate that we're related sometimes..
Much love homie.
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i hope you feel better soon. ♥
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