Speaking as a guy who has had my own issues with shyness and an inability to "pick up" or meet women...
...If you have to consciously deconstruct a social scene in which you are trying to meet someone, and are having to rely on rational thought or a memorized logical process...well, you're doing it wrong and will eventually fail. Maybe not the first night, maybe not the second...but eventually you will fail.
Just be yourself...get over the awkward feeling...and relax. Eventually you'll find someone who peeks your interest, and who happens to like you for being yourself.
Japanese guys are very strange. I suppose it's easier to break "dating" down into a series of processes ... and then they can get ... some haha! (maybe they should just go with drugs haha)
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...If you have to consciously deconstruct a social scene in which you are trying to meet someone, and are having to rely on rational thought or a memorized logical process...well, you're doing it wrong and will eventually fail. Maybe not the first night, maybe not the second...but eventually you will fail.
Just be yourself...get over the awkward feeling...and relax. Eventually you'll find someone who peeks your interest, and who happens to like you for being yourself.
Copious amounts of drugs don't hurt, either. :)
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Japanese guys are very strange. I suppose it's easier to break "dating" down into a series of processes ... and then they can get ... some haha! (maybe they should just go with drugs haha)
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