friends...share your thoughts

[uniqdudette]

I am in a state of shock and confusion...

I need your advice... feel free to share your thoughts on this situation:

I have a friend (girl) who is being involved -emotionally involved- with another girl. Lets name my friend Bunny and the other girl Bugs. . Okay, serious talk. Bunny is beautiful and talented. She has something in between her ears -

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[volleyaddict]

i think it's best to give bunny time. time to think, time to let her feel na it's okay na to share what she feels....
then talk to her. i myself have no idea of what you must say, but i think if you're in front of bunny na, everything will just come. just don't make her feel like she's done the worst thing in the world. comfort her, tell her that she can trust you and from there, give her the advice that she needs. kung ano mang advice ang ibibigay mo sa kanya, assure her that that's what's best for her. and don't forget to tell bunny that everything's gonna be alright.

i'll pray for the both of them.

[irresistablue]

haha.. is it my turn now? hahaha.. well.. the things i say is always in side of my friends... so maybe you could do that too... is bunny happy with bugs? well if she is, and you'd stop her, why would you take the happiness from her? diba? all you can do is be there and be with her in times of need. Sexuality is an issue, yes, but we all want happiness right? If she your outlook of the relationship will flop, warn her, but don't stop her. If the relationship fails. It's ok, she'd be sad, but she'd grow out of it. Everybody benefits, especially Bunny.

Rep ka... :)

[uniqdudette]

i have nothing against girl-tomboy relationship. Aside from bunny, I have a friend who is engaged with another girl. Ako tinatakbuhan nya pagnagkakaproblema sila. What I always do then is i'd help her but hindi ko kinokonsinte ang ginagawa nya. Like what you said, hinahayaan ko sya kasi masaya sya dun at nakikita ko ung mabuting pagbabagong naidulot ng relationship nila . But this situation is different. Like what I said, maaaring mali ang notion ni Bunny ng happiness with the girl kasi napapahmak siya with Bugs. Nakukuha nyang magsinungaling sa parents nya at magviolate ng school rules. Also, to consider the attitude of Bugs, baka Bunny just feels threatened kaya nya di maiwan-iwan si Bugs.

I guess what Bunny can do is to assess and be aware of her fundamental option . What is the source of such decision of hers? Is it really because of love or fear. She used to like guys but all of a sudden a shift in likeness, i want to find out the reason for that. (ung sa isang friend ko alam ko ung nagtrigger sa kanya to find love in the same

[irresistablue]

yun naman pala eh.. at least you have an idea of what's happening.. first things first, find out what she really feels, help her... then given what she says and shows... then go and think what you think is best for her. but never force her to do something she doesn't want... :) that's what i think :D