I have isolated the gene for unreasonableness

[underwaterdream]

I'll probably regret writing this, but whatever.

Apparently Lea Culver can't be in contact with me or be my friend anymore, because "she's respecting her sister's wishes".
The kicker is that she ended the friendship silently, without explanation, just like Alisha did.  She unfriended me on facebook, she didn't respond to follow up friend requests or

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[akirren]

I wish I could step up and talk about some things with you. One being that the babysitting thing had little or nothing to do with alisha's decision. I wish you and I could have a long convorsation about all this.
But that wouldn't help things really, I wouldn't want anything weird to come between you and I.

It's so painful when something like this happens.
I am, as always, your friend. <3

[underwaterdream]

In that case she should have been adult enough to tell me what was upsetting her in a forum in which I could respond to it. She told me it was about the babysitting in the e-mail she sent me breaking things off, so that's the infomration I'm operating on. If people want their emotions to be understood they need to explain what they are and where they are stemming from. I would absolutely LOVE to know what it is I'm meant to have done wrong.

I wouldn't want anything to come between us either, but if you think you could illuminate things for me a little bit in a non-awkward way I would appreciate it. If you don't, I totally understand that that might be way too challenging. But if I had more understanding about this it might be easier to let go of what's already been lost.

[akirren]

I know. She handled it badly.
I'm not sure you want to hear what there is for me to say. It's non-specific, and hurtful. But if you do want to talk, let's do it more privately.

[spent_ideals]

sounds like they are both being massive cunts. fuck people like that. in the eye. with a shitty stick.

[aesthmatic]

this makes me very very angry. and frustrated.