Comments | tyguard: Life is Strange

tyguard

Life is Strange

Feb 07, 2011 14:44

Let me start this with the statement that "Having a Boyfriend is Weird", like incredibly weird to me. I am not huggy or cuddly or squishy to people until we have know each other for a decent amount of time, you know like... 2 YEARS. However, for whatever reason, I attract males that stick to me like gooey marshmallows! I think iX once told me it ( Read more... )

self destruction, life is strange, retardation, college, deep thoughts

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freckleshark February 7 2011, 23:43:39 UTC

>>Is it cruel to date someone who has deep feelings for you when you can't return their feelings with the same intensity?Y...yes. Well, maybe not "cruel" per se, but it's definitely not a good thing to continue doing. It's not even that I think you're doing anything wrong (as far as I know you've been really up-front about how you feel; it's not like you're lying or trying to "lead him on"), it's more that I'm afraid this is going to blow-up into something ugly ( ... )

tyguard February 8 2011, 00:32:55 UTC

HI KATIE :D

Yeah these are all things I don't want to happen, so I have some thinking to do. :/ I certainly can't do anything about this in the next 2 weeks (valentine's day blarghhhhhh). Also we only have one shared friend, we don't run in the same circles of people otherwise so I don't think a bad break up would sour anything except our relationship.

I WANT TO BE SO STRAIGHT FORWARD ABOUT THIS DX, but I know that that would probably end just as badly. I just want to ask him "Do you want to keep going out even if I don't think I'll ever feel strongly?" ... while typing that I just realized that if I'm even thinking of saying that I should probably just break it off. Blargh, see this is all trouble.

The lesson from this, Alisha is better off with animals, friends and family and no boyfriends.

freckleshark February 8 2011, 22:55:54 UTC

My only other suggestion would be to keep going, and just be sure he knows, very clearly, that it takes you longer to develop deep feelings than most and it's nothing he's doing wrong. Then it kind of boils down to if he can understand and respect that or not, and be okay with it. Because on the flip side, it's not fair for him --or anyone, for that matter-- to expect you to feel or act in a way that's not you.

Alsoalsoalso, I HOPE ALL ASIDE FROM THIS IS GOING WELL. And I too, am excited to see you in March |3