I want the Cullens to adopt me so Jasper can feel me *wink*
:: You
Name: Ani
Age: 20 (21 on the 16th, woohoo?)
Gender: Female
:: It's In The Genes
What personality traits do you think you've inherited from your real parents? From my mother, I'm very argumentative, I rarely let anyone have the last word, I'm sensitive to moods (other people and my own), I'm quick tempered and have a sharp mind (as well as tongue). From my father, I'm stubborn, I don't like being wrong, I hold grudges easily, I'm reliable (although I'm more reliable than even HIM I think), I'm a bit of a perfectionist and I'm very forgetful.
Who are you closer to, your mom or your dad? My mom, definitely. Probably because I live with her, but also because my dad just too insensitive.
If you could (and were willing to) change something about your parents, what would it be and why? With my mom, for the world to stop revolving around her and her woes. With my father, his mysoginistic attitude and judgement on women.
:: Growing Up Is So Hard To Do
Where have you grown up, a rural house or an urban house? Urban, though Puerto Rican cities are never really cities and the one I live in is a cross between a city and a rural area *shrugs* I can live in both since I was sort of raised in a farm (not a lot though) and then the city, so, um, both?
Do you like eating with your family or whenever you're hungry? Whenever I'm hungry. I don't really like to wait for everyone to decide to eat before I eat, but company can be enjoyed occasionally.
T.V. viewing, a solitary experience or fun for the whole family? Solitary experience. I don't like having people talk when I'm trying to watch t.v.
Homework, something to do on your own or parental assistance required? On my own, but I usually ask for insight, just never full on help.
:: So Very Annoying
How does your mother act as a shopping partner? How does it make you feel? Well, she's a bit of a critic, always saying, "Are you sure that'll fit you?" And hates waiting around in stores for long and if it was up to her, I'd wear the same type of jeans with the same color until I was 70. It's very annoying because nothing I choose she likes (especially if it's too sexy looking) and she doesn't critique you, she JUDGES you, which is ten times worse if you ask me.
How does your mother hang out with you and your friends? How does it make you feel? First of all, my mom doesn't believe in friends. Secondly, she doesn't hang out with MY friends. My mom doesn't like most of my friends and the ones she does like and has to be in the same room with, for whatever reason (when I'm there too, obviously), she might do nothing or talk about me like I'm not there, especially if she's mad at me and trying to prove a point.
How does your father feel about you dating? How does it make you feel? Um. He doesn't feel anything, I guess. I rarely ever see him and the one time he saw me with a guy (we accidentally bumped into each other at the beach), he barely acknowledged his existence and just nodded to him but didn't say a thing.
What does your father think about the importance of your education? How does it make you feel? Again, doesn't feel anything. I have told him my good grades and when they're really good he just says he's going to give me some extra money (aside from the child support, which he forgets most of the time), but that's it, no pat in the back or proud smile. It does make me feel like nothing I do really matters to him on a sentimental level although I've heard he shows off to his friends about me, it just bugs me that he never even tries to congratulate me or anything like that to my face and paying me off doesn't work as a congratulation to me *shrugs*
:: Parents Just Don't Understand
You have an exam on Monday, but you want to go out with some friends on Sunday. Your parents know, what is their reaction? My mom (who's the only one who lives with me) would say, "It's your problem. You're the one who has to take the exam, not me." No joke. That's my mom. I don't think my dad would care, he often just let me do my own decisions.
You cut class to go to rock climbing with some friends. One of them trips and hurts his leg. You call your parents for help, how do they handle the situation (and you)? Well, my mom will rant and rant about how irresponsible I was, what was I thinking, what if I would've gotten hurt, etc. She would probably give me the silent treatment for days until she talked to me again. My dad would come to the rescue in a second (I got hurt once, he reacted really fast) and then blame it all on my mom (or my stepmom) which makes me think he really does care, just don't ask him to put it into words *rolls eyes*
You've just been asked on a date by the hottest guy (or girl) you've ever met. There's one problem. He's (or she's) a little old for you. How do your parents handle that case scenario? I've never done this, so I don't know, but I think my mom would sort of freak and start asking me if she needs to ask my aunt for pills (you know, to avoid getting pregnant). My dad wouldn't care, he'd just wait for something bad to happen so he can blame my mom.
You lost $20 your parents gave you to buy something from the grocery store. Your parents find out, how do they deal with you? Oh, mom will get mad, real mad, and probably say I owe her the $20. My dad would get mad too, probably give me a little speech (depending on how drunk he is) and then take it out on my stepmom.
The computer is under lock inside a room in the house for use control, but you made a copy of the key so that's not a problem for you. One day, the original happens to get lost and your parents need to use the room urgently. You show them your copy, how do they react? (True story, and no, I NEVER showed my mom the key, I know better *snort*) Mom will start asking how I got it, who made it for me, wait a while, get drunk, and then yell about how could I dare try to undermine her authority by doing something like that behind her back. My dad would probably do the exact same thing, except he'd yell at me less and blame my stepmom for losing the original key in the first place (and for letting me get away with making a copy).
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Name: Ani
Age: 20 (21 on the 16th, woohoo?)
Gender: Female
:: It's In The Genes
What personality traits do you think you've inherited from your real parents? From my mother, I'm very argumentative, I rarely let anyone have the last word, I'm sensitive to moods (other people and my own), I'm quick tempered and have a sharp mind (as well as tongue). From my father, I'm stubborn, I don't like being wrong, I hold grudges easily, I'm reliable (although I'm more reliable than even HIM I think), I'm a bit of a perfectionist and I'm very forgetful.
Who are you closer to, your mom or your dad? My mom, definitely. Probably because I live with her, but also because my dad just too insensitive.
If you could (and were willing to) change something about your parents, what would it be and why? With my mom, for the world to stop revolving around her and her woes. With my father, his mysoginistic attitude and judgement on women.
:: Growing Up Is So Hard To Do
Where have you grown up, a rural house or an urban house? Urban, though Puerto Rican cities are never really cities and the one I live in is a cross between a city and a rural area *shrugs* I can live in both since I was sort of raised in a farm (not a lot though) and then the city, so, um, both?
Do you like eating with your family or whenever you're hungry? Whenever I'm hungry. I don't really like to wait for everyone to decide to eat before I eat, but company can be enjoyed occasionally.
T.V. viewing, a solitary experience or fun for the whole family? Solitary experience. I don't like having people talk when I'm trying to watch t.v.
Homework, something to do on your own or parental assistance required? On my own, but I usually ask for insight, just never full on help.
:: So Very Annoying
How does your mother act as a shopping partner? How does it make you feel? Well, she's a bit of a critic, always saying, "Are you sure that'll fit you?" And hates waiting around in stores for long and if it was up to her, I'd wear the same type of jeans with the same color until I was 70. It's very annoying because nothing I choose she likes (especially if it's too sexy looking) and she doesn't critique you, she JUDGES you, which is ten times worse if you ask me.
How does your mother hang out with you and your friends? How does it make you feel? First of all, my mom doesn't believe in friends. Secondly, she doesn't hang out with MY friends. My mom doesn't like most of my friends and the ones she does like and has to be in the same room with, for whatever reason (when I'm there too, obviously), she might do nothing or talk about me like I'm not there, especially if she's mad at me and trying to prove a point.
How does your father feel about you dating? How does it make you feel? Um. He doesn't feel anything, I guess. I rarely ever see him and the one time he saw me with a guy (we accidentally bumped into each other at the beach), he barely acknowledged his existence and just nodded to him but didn't say a thing.
What does your father think about the importance of your education? How does it make you feel? Again, doesn't feel anything. I have told him my good grades and when they're really good he just says he's going to give me some extra money (aside from the child support, which he forgets most of the time), but that's it, no pat in the back or proud smile. It does make me feel like nothing I do really matters to him on a sentimental level although I've heard he shows off to his friends about me, it just bugs me that he never even tries to congratulate me or anything like that to my face and paying me off doesn't work as a congratulation to me *shrugs*
:: Parents Just Don't Understand
You have an exam on Monday, but you want to go out with some friends on Sunday. Your parents know, what is their reaction? My mom (who's the only one who lives with me) would say, "It's your problem. You're the one who has to take the exam, not me." No joke. That's my mom. I don't think my dad would care, he often just let me do my own decisions.
You cut class to go to rock climbing with some friends. One of them trips and hurts his leg. You call your parents for help, how do they handle the situation (and you)? Well, my mom will rant and rant about how irresponsible I was, what was I thinking, what if I would've gotten hurt, etc. She would probably give me the silent treatment for days until she talked to me again. My dad would come to the rescue in a second (I got hurt once, he reacted really fast) and then blame it all on my mom (or my stepmom) which makes me think he really does care, just don't ask him to put it into words *rolls eyes*
You've just been asked on a date by the hottest guy (or girl) you've ever met. There's one problem. He's (or she's) a little old for you. How do your parents handle that case scenario? I've never done this, so I don't know, but I think my mom would sort of freak and start asking me if she needs to ask my aunt for pills (you know, to avoid getting pregnant). My dad wouldn't care, he'd just wait for something bad to happen so he can blame my mom.
You lost $20 your parents gave you to buy something from the grocery store. Your parents find out, how do they deal with you? Oh, mom will get mad, real mad, and probably say I owe her the $20. My dad would get mad too, probably give me a little speech (depending on how drunk he is) and then take it out on my stepmom.
The computer is under lock inside a room in the house for use control, but you made a copy of the key so that's not a problem for you. One day, the original happens to get lost and your parents need to use the room urgently. You show them your copy, how do they react? (True story, and no, I NEVER showed my mom the key, I know better *snort*) Mom will start asking how I got it, who made it for me, wait a while, get drunk, and then yell about how could I dare try to undermine her authority by doing something like that behind her back. My dad would probably do the exact same thing, except he'd yell at me less and blame my stepmom for losing the original key in the first place (and for letting me get away with making a copy).
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