:: You
Name: Ani
Age: 20 (21 in July)
Gender: Female
:: In reality...
How many siblings do you have (mention if they're brothers or sisters)? 2 sisters, they don't live at home with us though.
Are you the eldest, middle child or youngest? Youngest
What traits from your siblings drive you crazy (and not in a good way)? They're immature (in spite of their age), think they deserve it all, let men make fools out of them and have their priorities out of whack.
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Would you prefer being the eldest, the middle child or the youngest? Why? Youngest, just as I am, because I learn from my siblings' mistakes and avoid them. Plus, being the baby has its advantages :-P
What could be the best and worst things about having a younger sibling? The best thing would have to be having someone to care for, to teach and it's good practice for when you have your own kids. The worst thing would be pretty similar, sometimes you don't want to have to be the 'mother' of your 'little sister' (or brother) and want to enjoy your youth without having them glued at your hip.
What could be best and worst things about having an older sibling? The best thing is being protected, having someone to look up to and learn from (if the case arises), but the worst thing would be to have them never take you seriously or, because you're younger than them, always treat you like you don't know anything.
If you could choose a sibling (older/younger, brother/sister), what would you choose and why? I always wanted an older brother, someone to come to school and fend off the bullies or someone my friends could crush on and I'd say, "In your dreams, he's my brother, which means he is OFF LIMITS." That would've been nice.
:: Sibling Rivalry
You have a crush on a guy (or girl) your sibling knows. You find out that he/she likes your sibling. Would your sibling date the person knowing that you like them? Would you be okay with that? I think... I think they wouldn't, they'd probably avoid it at first, out of respect, but then if the attraction got too much, they'd ask me and... at first I'd be a little heartbroken, but then I'd say fine, if he wants you, then I won't get in the way, but it'd sure hurt like hell to admit it.
There's a school trip you've been wanting to go on and your parents have saved up for it, but suddenly they're faced with the decision of using that money to pay a college debt for your sibling. Your parents tell you two to talk it out and decide who gets the money or else they won't use it on either. How and what do you decide? Well, first we have to talk about which is more important, the college debt or my school trip. There'll probably be some arguing (a LOT) since my sibling will consider their college debt more important and I'll probably say, "Your own FAULT for getting in DEBT." The only way we'd probably draw a truce (I'm too stubborn and anyone related to me would have the same affliction, I bet you) is if they give me something in return and I'll agree taking into consideration that I can go on another trip (*grumble grumble*) in the future, but they owe me, big time.
Your sibling and you have been fighting a lot (over chores, the t.v., video games, the bathroom, you name it). Suddenly, your sibling catches you sneaking into your room at 3AM on a school night. What's the first thought in your head and the first words out of their mouth? First thought in my head, "Crap." First words out of their mouth, "You have five minutes starting now." They probably wouldn't rat me out RIGHT AWAY, they'd me more angry about me leaving the house without telling anyone... He'd probably use it against me in the future (blackmail, anyone?)
:: Blood Is Thicker Than Water
Your first love breaks your heart and you're a wreck. Once your sibling finds out, what do you think would happen? Well, it depends on why the heartbreak happened. If it was a malicious act against me, I see them threatening the guy (especially if he tried to do something bad to me) or scaring him half to death, but if it was an amicable parting, they'll give me space and wait for me to go to them to talk about it.
You have to write a research paper of 20 pages and the due date is tomorrow. There's also party you really want to go to today and it seems that either way, those 20 pages aren't going to get written. Your sibling agrees to help you under one condition, what is the condition? He/She does the research, I do the writing. If I whine real hard I'll get to go to the party (for a short amount of time), but I'll owe him/her, big time. Quid pro quo, is the family way.
You're invited to stay at your sibling's house. Their significant other is also staying there. Both you and your sibling know the person doesn't like you. How is the situation handled? Easy. I pretend the person doesn't exist and vice versa. We both have enough common courtesy to be well mannered and all, but I came there to see my sibling, not them, so if they don't like me that doesn't mean I won't hang out with my sibling when they're around, and my sibling understands this. As long as the person is GOOD to my sibling... I won't deliberately cause any grief.
Your parents say you can't go out on a date without a chaperone, in this case, your sibling. Is this good news or bad news? Bad. Bad. Bad. Because, I don't care if I have the coolest siblings ever (and in one case, one of them is sort of cool), I like to keep my family separate from my dates, at least until it gets serious enough for me to be sure they won't run away and hide or else I'll be single, forever.
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