I Hate Stalker!

[twentyninenight]

Well, you are mostly known about stalker, right? They're someone really persistent who wanted to have you all the way, following you around to anywhere place you'd be going, and searching information about you from all sources they'll get. I don't know why I encountered that problem right at a time when I have graduated. It's scary, troublesome,

Comments

[eumiharun]

3 guys?? ∑(゜Д゜;)

Problems concerning guys are kinda hard to deal with. ^^;; I used to help my friend from her stalker-ish suitors. And it was tough shooing (I sound mean u.u) them away especially the creepers. ಠ_ಠ

The first guy should have been a considerate of you if he really wants to be friends with you. Anyone would find that creepy and annoying. ಠ_ಠ Have you already told him to go away already? :O

I hope they'll let you have a peaceful Chinese New Year and stop pestering you. ^^

[twentyninenight]

Yeah, it's so weird... 3 guys and I don't even want it in the first place. My story is weird, as well as funny. Maybe I'll laugh at it in my old days.

How can you help your friend? Is it like try shooing with something like "Go away! I don't want to be friend with you"? 'Coz, really, I don't even want to sent him any message anymore.

Thank you, yeah I hope too

[eumiharun]

I was acting like a father, the one who scares them or barricade my friend whenever they come near her. ^^;; I always accompanied her especially when we needed to trick them. Like, we'll make them believe we'll go to gate A but run as fast as we can to hide and go to another gate. Or I'll tell them to stfu already. (<-- I sound like a big bully already orz) If they don't listen, we'll ignore them or make excuses or something. After a few months they're gone! xD;;

[twentyninenight]

That's exactly what I did when I saw him. I gripped my friend's hand and we're going through another gate. Okay, I won'tstop ignoring him. I hope he'll go tired in the end.

[yukiruchan]

Be careful, what you do to guys (i.e. ignore them) might not register in their common sense because they'll think they have to show you their persistence to win your heart. This has happened to me around 3 times, it took forever for them to give up and by that time I was annoyed to the point of no return and was REALLY MEAN to them. After that I just thought I'd tell them more outright.

[twentyninenight]

Whoahh! You had already meet 3 of them? That's a lot!

Hmm, I might use that cruel method if he's still sent message to me again. As of now, he didn't do anything, except asking my friend. It's just been 2 days. I wanna now if day 3 is like that too and I'll shooing him with my way.

[vazra]

Uggggh~ i though i just can find stalker in manga or anime only =__=; it's very scary to know there are exist in real world

Yeah, just ignore the stalker acts but before that you better said right forward (without harsh words off course!) that he's "annoying! and please don't disturb you and your friends"
....ignore is the best way (tough it take times) and hoping that your stalker is not persisting guy :p

PS: don't used cruel method cause it's not good to made someone have grudge against you. Remember the country you life in, he can XXX you or do charms, and justice is useless in our nation =___=#

Gambatte ne~ =w=

[twentyninenight]

I thought that too until I've found the real one. Today, he even asked me to meet him in uni even though I didn't bother to go.

I'd like to tell him right away, but my friends said it's better to befriend him instead. But really, I don't want to take problem and befriended him. I guess I should stop him to bother me.

Yeah, I know that xxx charm. I'm really scared if he will do it. My... I won't go to uni again until 'yudisium' (around Feb-March, or April) or graduation day (that'll be around October?). I'm free now!

[vazra]

=w=;yare2~
Better you find nice *in all overall* boyfriend, asap! to "show of"
Your stalker might be back off plus you got free multifunction bodyguard :D *ehehe*

[twentyninenight]

I wouldn't be so scared if I can make a BF right away... Just that I'm not that type who easily date someone. I'll pray so that this stalker will get enough of me.

[alyyn]

stalker is indeed creepy and the thought of them following you everywhere is enough giving me chills. It's dangerous for you since you're a girl. Until the problem is solved its better you to be accompany everywhere you go and don't fall for their trick. Stalker is never a good thing, really.
Since he's persistent (keep sending text even though you've never replied to it) it's best to confront it face to face. If you do a little bit of coercion as in, report this to the police I guess he'll slowly back up.

I do agree with Vazra-san. If you could find a guy (or your friend) to pretend to be your boyfriend would be better. I think the thought of you being single is the reason why he keeps following you around.

PLEASE BE SAFE D: kick him at the crotch part if he ever do something funny.

[twentyninenight]

Hahaha... I would do what you suggested, really. I think I'm a strong girl after all. And my friends knows that too, they won't give information about me to him. Lately, he's kind of surrender (maybe) because I didn't go to where he had asked me to. I hope he feel it, that I don't want to be related to him.

[dream_moon92]

be careful of the stalker. if you can`t make him stop stalking you, you need to tell the police
(even though the police in our country "almost" unreliable)
but thats better then the stalker disturb your life

[twentyninenight]

Thank you for your concern. It's fine now. I think that guy is all talk. I hope I won't meet him anymore in the future.

[dream_moon92]

It`s good if It`s ok now..
yeah... hope that stalker guy won`t stalking you again..
>:(

[twentyninenight]

Yup, thank you~