Being a gentleman brings out the lady in a woman

Nov 08, 2005 10:02

It's true. I see it time and time again. While my lifestyle and views on life can be wildly unorthodox and very modern I'm still quit conservative in some regards. Perhaps why I attempt to be as chivalrous and hold the highest amount of manners and etiquette as I can. Why? Cause nothing is more beautiful then a woman who acts like a woman. And no, I'm not talking about the last minute decision changing, hormonal mood swings, or the penchant to spent several preemptive hours dressing, makeup, hair, etc. because actually I love those things too. Just in qualitative doses. I'm talking about the things that really make a woman a woman.

Nothing is better the women who wear long earrings, strappy heels, pink, frilly blouses, hair in ponytails, pig tails with ribbons, chokers, stripper boots, spaghetti strap and baby doll tshirts and jeans, berets, long necklaces, fingernail polish, mini, poodle, and pleated skirts, silk scarfs, long hair, anything from sanrio, and let's not forget the heart stopping large bouncy curls from hot rollers. A woman whose part couture, sunday couch potato, new york sophisticate, japanese school girl, black leather mistress, and the outdoorsy yet I run from bugs type. Now don't get me wrong I think this movement for women to be more hardcore, tough, metal spikes and sporty is great it's just not for me.

So what's with opening doors, pulling out chairs, handing over our coats, and picking up the tab you ask? Honestly it's all about freeing women up so they can utilize that effort, time, and money to move around with the grace and finesse somewhere between a butterfly and a cat, hair and makeup akin to a Sally Hershberger haircut and face by Daniel Sandler, and purchase the things we like to see them in such as that Karen England dress, $300 Malano Blaniks, or a microfiber Prada clutch. We men live on that edge for another squeal, moan, giggle, and purr that all women seem to have so very well defined and can usually only be coerced with proper diligence and effort.

Which makes one wonder why do I know so much about the differences from Kate Spade, Coach, Salvatore Ferragamo, to Louis Vuitton, MAC, Lancôme, Clinque, to Shu-Uemura, and Tiffanys, Bvlgari, Tacori, to Verragio? What straight man knows so much about such things? I can almost feel the guild of men placing me under a close eye with their hand on the revoke stamp. But in my defense I can tell you who. One who can tell a perfect wine from a fine wine or even mediocre wine. One who spends hours understanding the intricacy of all the flavors and notes that construct a wine to know which one pairs best with the meal at hand opposed to playing russian roulette with the wine list. Cause goodness knows at this point I've fired alot more bullets instead of clicking empty chambers. But we're talking about women here not wine. And were talking about avoiding the revoke stamp. And further still we're talking about being a gentleman.

One has to know ones enemy and all the things that differentiate the good from the bad or the best fit in my case . And freeing them to do what makes women women only helps to amplify those discerning characteristics and personality traits. Besides who wouldn't want to be around beauty in motion when woman are truly being women? So it all comes down to being a gentleman only helps make women beautiful, intricate, and fascinating. And why some people think that's a bad thing is well beyond my understanding.
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