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Jul 07, 2009 10:31

I AM NOW GOING TO RANT ABOUT RL.

I am forever stupefied at my older sister. I am hesitant to call her a bitch, because a lot of the time she isn't, in fact, she is quite kind when she wants to be. I also can't call her stupid, because she isn't. So what has me stupefied, is that very often she gets into what my family calls "Luanne's Special World ( Read more... )

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itzaimster July 7 2009, 03:36:09 UTC
Where does she live?

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triptnx July 7 2009, 03:38:20 UTC
15 mins away from me? HAHA. I don't know what the area is called. I've only ever been there twice.

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itzaimster July 7 2009, 03:42:11 UTC
In other words nowhere near me so I can't help? :(

I say screw her. She should have organised it better.

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triptnx July 7 2009, 03:44:49 UTC
Haha yeah nowhere near you :-(.
She told me to forget about it. I will - I feel slightly guilty, if only towards her cat and boyfriend, but I'm more annoyed and angry than guilty so it works out. I am about to channel my anger and go to the gym and be angry there. It seems like a good use of my time. I started watching the AHBL dvd but then was too annoyed to enjoy it. SO I WILL SAVE IT.
<3!!!

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blualbino July 7 2009, 04:58:16 UTC
Ugh, I hate when people are inconsiderate like that. Of course your plans don't matter, why would they? >( You have every reason to tell her to shove it.

(Sorry I'm so blunt, I just get angry about things like this)

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triptnx July 8 2009, 08:05:21 UTC
I get really angry as well. I am STILL ANGRY. But ugh, I'm not doing it. Haha. The sad thing is, that this won't be the last time it happens, and its really frustrating!

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nilladriel July 7 2009, 05:49:46 UTC
Just because she's CAN be kind doesn't negate the times when she is being a bitch. And. Trust me. THIS IS HER BEING A BITCH.

It looks like you're not doing it--GOOD. You're not being elitist by saying 'studying law is hard', okay? I have cousins who do law, it is motherfucking hard. She's obviously setting herself up as the victim and that ticks me off.

And your poor cat.

*hug*

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triptnx July 8 2009, 08:07:16 UTC
There would be no way I would do it after everything she has done. I may have considered doing it if she had put in some consideration for the hardships I would have faced...but I doubt she even thought about it. I'm pretty sure she thinks she was doing me a favour by letting me housesit.

As to setting herself up as the victim - that is the best description EVER of her actions. ANd it is so true for EVERYTHING she does. I will tell my other family members about it - we tend to have big ranty bitches about my older sister. But what a perfect description!

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nilladriel July 8 2009, 08:19:08 UTC
Oh, wow. How short sighted is that. LETTING you housesit. Ffffft and she's the one RELYING on you and ~asking you for a favor~ ffffffffffffft

Haha wow you guys really don't get along do you |: but who would with an attitude like that. It is not okay to expect favors from family just because they happen to be family. yeurgh.

I have a fair few family members who do the victim-playing *g* So when I read your entry I thought "Oh, another one," and it was tragic.

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triptnx July 8 2009, 08:27:10 UTC
We got along great when there was a state between us! Haha. We can be civil to aech other - which is mostly me accepting that her being rude and demanding is simply how she is and just smile and nod when she criticises my every move. And the sad thing is, barring this large part of her personality, she really is quite generous and thoughtful. IDK, I just don't understand how she manages to be both those two things, and then a giant bitch at the same time. Like I said, she totally stupefies me.

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triptnx July 8 2009, 08:10:14 UTC
When she used to live at home, we used to go through this sort of thing at least once a day. When I was about 16, and her 18, I began to see that if I really let to get to me, I would spend my entire life torn between anger and crying. It's just been so long since she has lived at home that I've forgotten how she is able to get you into her web, and then turn everything against you.'

Actually, after I posted the entry I realised I had a tag for "luanne" so I went back and read some of it. Nothing has changed. At all. Even vaguely. And that's sad, because some of those entries date back 2-3 years - the time she hasnt' lived at home. And that's even sadder, considering how she has been this way ever since puberty struck.

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janie_tangerine July 7 2009, 10:34:25 UTC
Uh, I'm with you here. WTF? I don't really think you have to do it or anything. I mean, she didn't warn, she didn't have even the decency to tell you the details and now she expects you to leave everything and do it? I don't think you should feel guilty about the response or anything really, and tbh I wouldn't do it on principle. *hugs* Seriously, that's just so inconsiderate.

(BTW, I don't know the situation, but if the problem is just her cat being alone wouldn't it just be easier to bring the cat where you live and keep it there until they're back? Or would that be a problem?) And also, be elitist as long as you like. Law is hard.

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triptnx July 8 2009, 08:14:13 UTC
Her cat can't come here unfortunately - believe me she has tried. She used to throw her cat in the car and come "visit" us when it was still a kitten, and every time she would get an earful from ALL of us and she still didn't learn. Heck, even the other day she asked if she could leave it here while her house (rented) was being inspected ( ... )

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