I'm assuming this is about Ricky? maybe explain to Josh that while he may still want to hang out with him, you don't? I don't know, it's a tough situation. I mean he is rather needy, and you shouldn't have to put up with that especially if it's having a negative effect on you. I really don't think you're a bitchy person. You're just bitchy when necessary ;) I had a friend like that who pretended to be so needy but really I think he was just taking the easy way out because it was easier to play the victim than to actually try to improve his situation. Tell him he needs to stick up for himself on his own first and then he can complain. maybe.
Sadly, that's what I've been saying to him the entire time. It's so annoying. He keeps just setting himself for failure, we try to warn him, he fails, and then he comes back complaining. Again, I've tried to be the friend but he just takes and takes. He offers help when it's not needed and never helps when it would actually work out. And no kid could complain so much about whatever's bothering him at the moment but still do it again later!!! ugh...
I'm glad you see I'm not bitchy unless needed. I do my best to only be when necessary, but lately it just happens and I don't want to be a bitch. Well, not an uncalled for one anyway. ;p
Well, it's true - you're never cruel unless necessary (and unless, of course, the reciever of the bitchiness has it coming...).
Regarding this whole situation...yeah. I guess what it comes down to is who has a harder time with it - is it worse for Josh to be around Ricky without you, or is it worse for you to be around Ricky at all? Frankly, if it were someone who drove me so freaking insane, I'd have to say "Sorry, but I just CANNOT be around him anymore".
And I know what you mean about psychic/energy vampires....they're sucky (heh, that actually wasn't intentional). I guess I'd say don't do it if you don't wanna - it's obviously not just some little nothingness to you. He drives you insane - you should therefore avoid him at all costs.
p.s. Sorry I didn't call the other night - I was too tired when I got home (from weirdness, lol) -_- then Sunday was....blah. I will call you tonight! Because I feel like it! And because there is discussable stuffs to...um...discuss...
okay sweetie.. your not bitchy unless well..you just have to be. I know who it's about and I'm sorry...I really pissed off because i miss ya like crazy and David wants to hang with y'all again too. You need to explain to josh how you feel about it and tell him he can hang out with him on his own but you really don't want to. I understand the neediness right now. I'm experiencing it with someone else from the Advocate.
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I'm glad you see I'm not bitchy unless needed. I do my best to only be when necessary, but lately it just happens and I don't want to be a bitch. Well, not an uncalled for one anyway. ;p
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Regarding this whole situation...yeah. I guess what it comes down to is who has a harder time with it - is it worse for Josh to be around Ricky without you, or is it worse for you to be around Ricky at all? Frankly, if it were someone who drove me so freaking insane, I'd have to say "Sorry, but I just CANNOT be around him anymore".
And I know what you mean about psychic/energy vampires....they're sucky (heh, that actually wasn't intentional). I guess I'd say don't do it if you don't wanna - it's obviously not just some little nothingness to you. He drives you insane - you should therefore avoid him at all costs.
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Sorry I didn't call the other night - I was too tired when I got home (from weirdness, lol) -_- then Sunday was....blah. I will call you tonight! Because I feel like it! And because there is discussable stuffs to...um...discuss...
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Oh, and Mary, I'm sorry I can't make it to homecoming but the price is just not working out. :.(
Again guys, thanks, you're all really awesome for just giving me advice that's actually practical. I knew I kept you all around for a reason ;p
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