Happy Birthday dialogues!! xoxo

[tripjinx]

Lately I've been getting the feeling that with the exception of a select group of people I matter less and less. Or maybe it's that other things are starting to matter more and more... look I am not an attention whore, I actually can be quite the recluse when I want to be. I just have a very low tolerance for the feeling of being taken for granted

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[c1tylov3]

I would like to join you and nanners in the club.

[tripjinx]

well not quite a club and let's be happy for now that it's not :P

[c1tylov3]

we shall have luncheon tomorrow. i'll bring bacon.

[vexia]

Plans - especially those sorted by friends - become tricky in these situations, I think. (By the way, I don't see how you can not matter because you are entirely selfless and amazing, and you don't deserve to be treated the way you are right now.)

I think, with friends, we start assuming things of one another because we supposedly know each other well enough that we can read minds. We get carried away with that sentiment. Unfortunately, such cannot be said for all persons. All I can say - in favour of the person in question - is that we all make mistakes.

On the other hand, I do believe that it's only fair and polite that friends notify each other of plans - especially one that both parties have discussed before. I could understand how one might feel in the aftermath. And the fact that you try - and anyone else who does, for that matter - should mean something and produce positive reactions and behaviours in response.

♥

(Don't think you're underappreciated, Cuqui.)

[tripjinx]

"I think, with friends, we start assuming things of one another because we supposedly know each other well enough that we can read minds. We get carried away with that sentiment. Unfortunately, such cannot be said for all persons. All I can say - in favour of the person in question - is that we all make mistakes."

I think from the get go I was expecting mistakes and generally accepting of them, because I am far from perfect. I just hate the feeling of being so disposable "Cuquí won't mind, she's down for whatever, she'll change what she has to no problem."

& it's not even one person sadly it's all a bunch of little incidents committed by several people over a course of months that I've been ignoring and letting go but yeah...

To be honest now that I've written it all out, I feel more equipped to deal with anything that comes up.

[tripjinx]

also Thanks E
you never fail to find the right words that manage to sound natural, true and comforting all at once.

*squeeze*