I'M IN UR FUTURE, TALKING ABOUT PORN.
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eliade's wonderful list of kinks, i have isolated the seventy bajillion that speak to me quite specifically. who knew i was such a pervert? that said, i'm only interested in reading these kinks within a fairly limited subset of fandoms and characters. my kinks are predominantly het, with some femslash
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and holy crap, it's gonna take me a while to get through that kink list. Even at A, there are lots of my kinks there. I think i'm going to have a lot of fun with this list :DDD
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part one of aphrodisia is the only bit i tend to re-read, because it's the most - to me - in character. but on behalf of all BDSM enthusiasts everywhere, i thank the author from the bottom of my heart for the amount of research and care that went into the writing of it.
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1. I am way kinkier than I though. Most of these things you’ve listed are arousing. In the right context, naturally. I feel like a little human search engine reading this list, going, ‘fanfic. Fanfic. Fanfic. Oh! I’ll have to reread that one.”
2. Most of the items off your list that I found particularly applicable to me were related to (loss of) control. What’s more, a lot of them were indirectly related, i.e.: sex in public is arousing, to me, not because of the exhibitionism but because it indicates a singlemindedness towards the act (like we talked about in The Bee Scene: half-craziness = extreme eroticism, apparently). Likewise jealousy is arousing because it’s involuntary. Who, me? Massive control issues? Nah.
Otherwise up for note: accidental stimulation, yay! Coming without being touched, yay! Sex with clothes still on, yay! (it’s kind of funny how even by reading this list, I can absolutely see how my asexuality is effecting my preferences. I mean, the notion that because it’s ( ... )
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2. i agree. i think one of the reasons that i am so into premature ejaculation and clothed sex is the idea of the desire being so urgent that it just cannot wait. perhaps it's so erotic to me because it's so far outside my own experience of sex.
in conclusion: what you said!
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This explains so much about fandom.
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