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Jan 01, 2009 10:47

I'M IN UR FUTURE, TALKING ABOUT PORN.

from eliade's wonderful list of kinks, i have isolated the seventy bajillion that speak to me quite specifically. who knew i was such a pervert? that said, i'm only interested in reading these kinks within a fairly limited subset of fandoms and characters. my kinks are predominantly het, with some femslash ( Read more... )

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tendre_posion January 1 2009, 00:15:02 UTC
WHEEEEE THE FUTURE :D

and holy crap, it's gonna take me a while to get through that kink list. Even at A, there are lots of my kinks there. I think i'm going to have a lot of fun with this list :DDD

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tree January 3 2009, 08:13:11 UTC
it was a lot of fun for me. and it was surprisingly difficult to distinguish between "stuff i like and will read" and "stuff that is actually a particular kink". so that was an education in itself. :)

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wendelah1 January 1 2009, 01:51:59 UTC
Wow. This is useful. You know, I am not sure what turns me on in fanfic. I don't think I've ever thought about it seriously. Nothing all that uncommon, I guess, looking at the list. It's weird, though. You know that long, long, long BSDM story Aphrodisia? The only scene that really turned me on was the one when they were shopping for toys. (For some reason, this totally cracks me up.) Maybe I'll have to try that. I've never been in an adult toystore. Except the virtual kind. Wow, even thinking about this. Okay. Gotta go. Uh, make dinner.

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tree January 3 2009, 08:26:44 UTC
i confess that even reading through the list of kinks made me have to go and, uh, make dinner. i am entirely too susceptible to the written word.

part one of aphrodisia is the only bit i tend to re-read, because it's the most - to me - in character. but on behalf of all BDSM enthusiasts everywhere, i thank the author from the bottom of my heart for the amount of research and care that went into the writing of it.

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amyhit January 1 2009, 02:59:46 UTC
Your list has made me realize several things:

1. I am way kinkier than I though. Most of these things you’ve listed are arousing. In the right context, naturally. I feel like a little human search engine reading this list, going, ‘fanfic. Fanfic. Fanfic. Oh! I’ll have to reread that one.”

2. Most of the items off your list that I found particularly applicable to me were related to (loss of) control. What’s more, a lot of them were indirectly related, i.e.: sex in public is arousing, to me, not because of the exhibitionism but because it indicates a singlemindedness towards the act (like we talked about in The Bee Scene: half-craziness = extreme eroticism, apparently). Likewise jealousy is arousing because it’s involuntary. Who, me? Massive control issues? Nah.

Otherwise up for note: accidental stimulation, yay! Coming without being touched, yay! Sex with clothes still on, yay! (it’s kind of funny how even by reading this list, I can absolutely see how my asexuality is effecting my preferences. I mean, the notion that because it’s ( ... )

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tree January 3 2009, 08:30:29 UTC
1. me too. oh thank you fanfic, for allowing me to explore my kink!

2. i agree. i think one of the reasons that i am so into premature ejaculation and clothed sex is the idea of the desire being so urgent that it just cannot wait. perhaps it's so erotic to me because it's so far outside my own experience of sex.

in conclusion: what you said!

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Um. elizabeth_hoot January 3 2009, 23:32:17 UTC
"Canon" is a kink?

This explains so much about fandom.

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Re: Um. tree January 4 2009, 03:55:08 UTC
doesn't it, though?

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amyhit January 5 2009, 03:19:54 UTC
comment crashes to say: HAHAHAHAHAHA!

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