Filtered to ReiraromantickanoMarch 31 2006, 11:43:03 UTC
Reira...:(
You're not selfish. Really. People can only carry so much on their shoulders before they collapse. Sometimes, even if it's painful for others, we can't handle everyone else's problems. It doesn't make you selfish though. Everyone is like that. I mean, it's good to care about others, but you need to make sure that you're okay too. If you immerse yourself in everyone else's problems, then you'll go insane letting your own problems build up.
And you don't fail everyone you come in contact with. You haven't failed me yet. :3
...Ah, I'm sorry. I probably shouldn't butt in without knowing the entire situation. That was rude of me. ^^;
(ooc: I know Reira probably won't reply, but Kano's usually full of worldy advice, so I figured she should put her two cents in. :3)
Private to Reirak_izumiMarch 31 2006, 15:09:58 UTC
Reira, I realize you may not wish to believe me, but I will tell you once again.
You are not selfish. The fact that you're so worried about Honya and Zeon is proof enough, and the fact that you were there to help me a few weeks ago is enough to convince me.
Nor are you failing everyone. Again I say that YOU HAVE NOT FAILED ME. You were the one who tried to tell me I was important and not a waste of a life, so unless you were lying in saying that, then there is at least one person you haven't failed. I doubt anyone would say or think that you'd failed them either.
Third, you really should relax and get some sleep. Sometimes it's the best thing to calm one down.
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You're not selfish. Really. People can only carry so much on their shoulders before they collapse. Sometimes, even if it's painful for others, we can't handle everyone else's problems. It doesn't make you selfish though. Everyone is like that. I mean, it's good to care about others, but you need to make sure that you're okay too. If you immerse yourself in everyone else's problems, then you'll go insane letting your own problems build up.
And you don't fail everyone you come in contact with. You haven't failed me yet. :3
...Ah, I'm sorry. I probably shouldn't butt in without knowing the entire situation. That was rude of me. ^^;
(ooc: I know Reira probably won't reply, but Kano's usually full of worldy advice, so I figured she should put her two cents in. :3)
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You are not selfish. The fact that you're so worried about Honya and Zeon is proof enough, and the fact that you were there to help me a few weeks ago is enough to convince me.
Nor are you failing everyone. Again I say that YOU HAVE NOT FAILED ME. You were the one who tried to tell me I was important and not a waste of a life, so unless you were lying in saying that, then there is at least one person you haven't failed. I doubt anyone would say or think that you'd failed them either.
Third, you really should relax and get some sleep. Sometimes it's the best thing to calm one down.
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