Ultimately, the relationship may have to end. If you're not okay with being in a relationship with a man, or being perceived as straight by the general public, it's not fair to either of you to cling to this relationship. It might be something you can get past as you connect more with other partners, especially lesbian-identified partners, of Trans guys. But it might be something you can't get past. That's not a failing on anyone's part. It's just how it goes sometimes.
Side note: Is your husband connected with other Trans guys?
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Definitely connect with more partners; http://t-vox.org/index.php?title=Online_Support has an entire section for partners that you should definitely make use of. http://youtube.com/tmatesftm would likely be very helpful for you as well.
Ultimately, the relationship may have to end. If you're not okay with being in a relationship with a man, or being perceived as straight by the general public, it's not fair to either of you to cling to this relationship. It might be something you can get past as you connect more with other partners, especially lesbian-identified partners, of Trans guys. But it might be something you can't get past. That's not a failing on anyone's part. It's just how it goes sometimes.
Side note: Is your husband connected with other Trans guys?
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