Things have slowed down lately, not in any physical, or emotional sense- things just seem to have more time to get sorted out into a way that makes sense
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I understand how it feels to not fit any labels. I am a girl that feels like a boy one day, a girl the next, and both on yet another day. More often I feel more towards the both. I say that I want to go androgynous but deep down that just doesn't feel quite right. I don't believe there is label for every single persons uniqueness. While I could say you should go through the process of a sex change that may not be what you feel is right. It is hard to be accepted in a society full of labelers but if you can find what makes you feel right then don't let them get to you. I don't look androgynous ( I have huge tits ), but I dress in such a way that is and that makes me feel good. This may not be much help. Just want you to know it's ok to not have a label. Also it is ok to have label if you find it fits. You look as if transgender may be your thing. My boyfriend is and I have been through it all. Hugs!
I guess it's more... Wanting to have my cake and eat it too...
I think that it's really cool that you sound like me in the gender respect- I don't entirely know what I am, and some days it's male, some female... But it's always me. I don't know much about the trans-community, or wording, or anything really... but I really appreciate this being here, and am sorry am so awkward...
You have to life your life for yourself, not others. I understand that it may be hard for your family, but you deserve to be happy. I was also 'groomed' at a young age by my grandmother that I was a girl and that being a girl meant certain things and that is what I had to be in order to please her. I gave up on it. I was not happy and I could not live like that anymore. And honestly it took me years to figure out who I really am. I also have learned to not concern myself with labels. I don't see the point. I am me, why does it need a label? I have found people I can connect with on this community and it does help a lot when I need it. I just don't center myself around that label, if that makes sense.
If you ever need to talk feel free to message me. I am online most of the time.
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I don't believe there is label for every single persons uniqueness. While I could say you should go through the process of a sex change that may not be what you feel is right. It is hard to be accepted in a society full of labelers but if you can find what makes you feel right then don't let them get to you. I don't look androgynous ( I have huge tits ), but I dress in such a way that is and that makes me feel good.
This may not be much help. Just want you to know it's ok to not have a label. Also it is ok to have label if you find it fits. You look as if transgender may be your thing. My boyfriend is and I have been through it all. Hugs!
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I think that it's really cool that you sound like me in the gender respect- I don't entirely know what I am, and some days it's male, some female... But it's always me. I don't know much about the trans-community, or wording, or anything really... but I really appreciate this being here, and am sorry am so awkward...
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If you ever need to talk feel free to message me. I am online most of the time.
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