Hey everyone. I hope I'm posting this in the right area. I'm 20 years old. I'm still semi-in the closet about my gender identity. The world sees me as a woman. But that's not what I'm supposed to be. When I was 8 years old, I told some kids in my class that I was supposed to be a boy. Somehow it managed to work it's way to the principle and then
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xoxo sistah mama queen <3
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-Tristan
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I'm a public service announcement for ace bandage damage. Be sure and get yourself a binder as soon as possible. Ace bandages are made to immobilize, so every time you breathe, it's constricting your body even further.
Glad to see you're trying to be the real you. Go for it and don't look back. Best of luck! <3
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also, you wouldn't happen to live in monroe, ny, would you? I also live in the lower hudson valley, and i hear ya on the shittyness of being trans in a small town. i'd like to offer you some local support, if you're around. i'm about 40 mins from monroe, and have a car. sometimes it's good to have another trans dude to chat with, you know?
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does suck indeed that you're not in my neck of the woods. should you ever find yourself in ny, hit me up!
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If the Big Brother's Binder program does not work out for you, then there's a couple of people setting up a program on Tumblr. If you're interested, then keep your eye on The Circle.
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FTM Passing Tips is excellent.
I am a DDD and have had some success binding with a double front compression shirt from FTM underworks. It's not perfect, but adding a vest (you can find vests and waistcoats preeetty cheap at thrift stores, or for a bit more expensive but still feasible at the men's section of Target) makes it a lot more convincing.
Binder + layers has been the best help for me. Binder, men's undershirt, men's dress shirt (button-down, darker colors, with a collar, and patterning on the shirt fabric are all very helpful), vest. A jacket or coat over top all that doesn't hurt either, if the weather allows. For the hips, the binder helps. More layers - boxers, loose men's pants (jeans, cargo pants), a wide belt, and some heavy boots - disguise curves and helps movement be more naturally masculine.
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