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[transatheist]

This really pisses me off. I recently busted a "tranny chaser" who tried to pass himself off as an ally to the trans community. He had e-mailed me and said he had no intention of hitting on me yet that is exactly what this guy did. As you can see in the blog, he called me his little sweet sub and asked if I wanted to be his Mistress(this being

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[transatheist]

I did tell him but he still kept hitting on me. And that's not what pisses me off exactly, it's that he tried to convince me he was an ally when he's just a chaser.

[transatheist]

If he was an ally he wouldn't have continued to send sexually explicit e-mails to my friend even after she told him it was a turn-off.

[cheshire_bitten]

Let me rephrase your question. (if you don't mind)

Does this sound like a reasonable human being or a slimey scum ball?

Let me just think? I'd go with the latter.

[transatheist]

I'll go with the latter also.

[transatheist]

Where's the fun in that? I wanted to show people what he truly is. I'm not the only one he's done this to.

[scorpionturtle]

The problem with tranny chasers is they really think that by showing physical attraction for and objectifying mtfs they are being allies. the tranny chaser see the mtf only as a sexual object and is only interest in that. There is also the fact that some (not all) transwomen welcome the attention of the tranny chasers especially if they have not had their identity as a women validated by cisgenders, if they are afraid that cisgendered folks wouldn't find them attractive, or/and if thier goal is to be with a cisgender man. Tranny chasers also seem to have a hard time understand that a transwomen can be a lesbian or that transman can straight(or just not attracted to straight men) which probably is due to the fact that most (not all) are straight iding cisgender men.

[transatheist]

Firstly, I must say that is a hilarious icon.

Secondly, well said! I'd love it if one day I could make a tranny chaser see that by objectifying transsexuals they are not being allies.

[pdxkate]

Its "Im an ally because I still like you even though you're a pathetic freak of nature!"

whoo. score one for the assholes.

= not an ally.

[morbioid]

There is also the fact that some (not all) transwomen welcome the attention of the tranny chasers especially if they have not had their identity as a women validated by cisgenders, if they are afraid that cisgendered folks wouldn’t find them attractive[…]

That is exactly why I welcome the attention of tranny chasers.

[jenaflynn]

Chasers will always chase. It's Ok to like someone, get shot down, and move onward.

But there are some, who will try to wheedle their way into your trust. I had some random weirdo about two years back who had like 3 profiles on an online matchmaking site for the bdsm community. He's just slowly rotate each of his slightly different profiles, as each one was shot down. It was incredibly fucking creepy. Some people just can not take a fucking hint. They think they can woo someone via deceit. And that's just wrong.

[transatheist]

I couldn't agree with you more. I fucking hate it when people do that.