I do, Just try to spend time with him, even if it seems impossible, try it. You'll probably quickly figure out that he isn't the same person around you're mom. You'll also probably find that he is trying to get everything right for your mom, as well. Although, I know right now it seems like she isn't the problem , but i think it is. I mean your mother wants to make such a good impression about you kids. She's not being herself, she's making you chang yourself to look like she is a good mother, and you are good kids. Just don't hold back too much because if you end up letting loose when they get married , he'll find out fast he got what he didn't sign up for.
Hang out with him, with no one else around. Maybe he thinks YOU don't like HIM.
So say sweet stuff. Like that you're really glad to have him in your family, and you're so appreciative of everything he's done for you. it'll make him happy. trust me. & make him think all like, "OH MY GOD THIS GIRL IS SO DARLING AND SWEET!!" xD
hey babey i have no advice cuz my step dad hates me lol sorry if that just made things worse but i miss you and love you and tell ur mom i said congradulations lol and hi lol i love you
Looooonnnnggggg commentsillysailorJune 21 2005, 19:35:54 UTC
I don't think it's possible for him to hate you. I know it sounds crazy but I think this is perfectly normal. If you and your new step-dad never had any tension and you change yourslef around him, it will probably blow up in your face. I don't know what kind of "screw-ups" you were speaking of but in your relationship with him not everyhting will always be perfect, just as in all other human relationships.
I guess what I'm trying to say is don't be so hard on yourself about minor problems. As long as you abide his rules and treat him with respect I think he will love you like a daughter.
also take into consideration thAt he's had kids before and it's probably a little weird to go through that all over again so just give your relationship time.
Sorry to come off all "know it all" like because I have never been in that situatuion. Uhhh...I hope I'm right??
Plus, if you feel uncomfortable over there then call me and I'll get you out of his hair! You know I'm kidding!!
like omg like hey likehows ur summer like?? like omg do u know what i just heard that u broke up with micheal like!!!!! well omg anywayssssss lol ololololooloolamfao olool ill just be sittin here if u ever want to talk about it like?!! omg like have like an awesome like!11111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111 simmer111111111111111111111111111111111111111
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Hang out with him, with no one else around.
Maybe he thinks YOU don't like HIM.
So say sweet stuff. Like that you're really glad to have him in your family, and you're so appreciative of everything he's done for you.
it'll make him happy. trust me. & make him think all like, "OH MY GOD THIS GIRL IS SO DARLING AND SWEET!!" xD
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lol..i'll try it
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I guess what I'm trying to say is don't be so hard on yourself about minor problems. As long as you abide his rules and treat him with respect I think he will love you like a daughter.
also take into consideration thAt he's had kids before and it's probably a little weird to go through that all over again so just give your relationship time.
Sorry to come off all "know it all" like because I have never been in that situatuion. Uhhh...I hope I'm right??
Plus, if you feel uncomfortable over there then call me and I'll get you out of his hair! You know I'm kidding!!
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like omg do u know what i just heard that u broke up with micheal like!!!!!
well omg anywayssssss lol ololololooloolamfao olool ill just be sittin here if u ever want to talk about it like?!!
omg like have like an awesome like!11111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111
simmer111111111111111111111111111111111111111
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