det är en hemlighet, es ist ein Geheimnis, es un secreto

[topherjones]

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[anonymous]

that picture of that guy spewing out ghosts/monsters/cartoons is neat.

[topherjones]

I know, isn't it? I wish I could remember where I found it

[anonymous]

I worry about offending my internet friends with something i might say, because there is an automatic lack of communication on here, which overall brings me discomfort :(

[topherjones]

Awww I understand the feeling. But all in all, some people get offended by anything :/ Sometimes I just have to put a disclaimer and hope for the best.

I guess the only advice I can give is try not to worry about it too much, because people who try to understand you are your good friends :)

[anonymous]

While I do have a few people to hang out with, I feel like there's no one I really relate with. I wish there were people I could be more comfortable with.

I'm a horrible procrastinator.

I'm more self-conscious and uncertain than I think people realize.

I'm poor and tend to spend my money on stupid things like booze and weed. Its fun but I don't know if I should be spending my money on such things!

I'm telling some random person my thoughts, I feel kinda pathetic for it, but it's fun at the same time. ;)

btw I'm a girl. :D

[topherjones]

I understand, I have trouble finding people who I'm comfortable with, but eventually you find a nice group of people to be with.

We have a lot in common Anon, it's weird since we don't know each other haha.

I guess the best thing, money wise, is to put a little bit away as you go. I mean partying is fun, but you shouldn't spend all your money on it ;) Or you could give a tiny bit to charity. I mean I'm a poor college student but I always try to give a bit haha

And talking to a random person is sometimes the best way to get everything out and get and an unbiased response. I'd love to talk to you more Anon ;)

[anonymous]

I have ridiculously high standards for men's faces and I hate myself for it. I can never be attracted to anyone "normal" anymore. I don't know what to do.

[topherjones]

I don't think you should hate yourself for your standards, and there's nothing wrong with being attracted something that isn't "normal". In fact, I think it's better quality to be attracted to something that is outside of what is "normal" than to just follow it. My advice would be to not cut yourself off from people who may not fit your standards---try to get to know them, personality might outshine something about them that doesn't meet your standards.

I hope that helped!