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vermillionlove in too_much_info

I am happy to say that....

Mar 31, 2012 17:51

....after a few years of being sexually active, my guy and I had anal sex for the first time this morning. It went okay I guess. It wasn't as awful as I thought it could be, but I was not really enjoying myself. After we got done and hopped in the shower, I went to bed. I woke up not too long ago and when I went pee, I found blood when I wiped my ( Read more... )

i have only myself to blame, gross sex, hemorrhoids, poop, blood, bodily fluids, sex

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scarletbeauty March 31 2012, 22:13:47 UTC

More lube and foreplay. If dude's not comfy with putting a finger in your ass, then buy a small butt plug or something. Loosening it up helps. A LOT.

Also, try laying on your sides, like spooning. That makes entrance much easier, trust me.

vermillionlove March 31 2012, 22:20:12 UTC

Well, he would have been more comfortable with putting a finger in than I was. I know that doesn't make any sense cause penis was going in there anyway. :P But failing to loosen it up was our critical error it seems. So if there is a next time I will definitely have him do that.

Spooning is my absolute favorite pov position. Next time I'll try that and see if it stimulates me the same way as it would with pov. Thanks for the tips :)

scarletbeauty March 31 2012, 23:03:00 UTC

No problem! It took me a few times, but I am a huge HUGE fan of anal sex at this point in my life. These were the tips I was given before I did it my first time, and I've always found the spooning position to be the easiest in terms of entrance. They can't go very deep like that, or push to hard or fast, so you get more time to adjust and relax into it. :D

Now I'm gonna bug my fiance for anal tonight. Cheers!

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vermillionlove March 31 2012, 22:21:50 UTC

Haha. Yup, there will be no more things going in until it's completely healed, that's for sure. We did use a lot of lube, but of course we could have still used more!

brokenscreamx March 31 2012, 22:29:38 UTC

ripping my ass is a big reason why I havent tried anal even though i want to so bad. i have digestive problems anyway so im a bit nervous about this as well.

hope your butt heals and feels better :)

runaway___ April 4 2012, 03:00:05 UTC

amen, sister. my new dude keeps insisting we'll try one day and i'm like "sweetheart, i've never pooped in your bathroom. you don't want to go in there."

brokenscreamx April 4 2012, 03:12:47 UTC

omg yes. my dude is into anal as well and i know it's something he wants to try but i just cant. im lactose intolerant so my poops are horrible and smells like death and i just cant imagine anal happening.

runaway___ April 4 2012, 03:14:59 UTC

I don't even like know how to describe to him the many reasons his wingwang will never see the inside of my butt. There are so many reasons my colon is fucked up. I'd hate to have to call the doctor and say "Hey! So you know how you said to be really careful and take fiber?! I had anal sex and my bowel exploded! Haha! Yes see you soon!"

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naomi_naomi March 31 2012, 22:59:52 UTC

I recently picked up a copy of Tristan Taormino's Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women and it was definitely worth it - highly recommended from one anal newbie to another.

nuns_on_acidx March 31 2012, 23:15:45 UTC

Anal sex is just messy, no way around it.
Although you should definitely use a condom, as it could cause serious infections if you aren't careful.

After a few times, it starts to be pleasurable.
You've just got to play with yourself during, at least I have to. lol

Mostly, I just think it isn't worth all the trouble when I've got a perfectly good, ready to go, non-painful place to stick it in.
It's nice to switch it up every once in a while though.