If I told you this was killing me, would you stop?

Dec 07, 2005 20:31

Tonight Ian, Walt, and Jeremiah went to Clutch Cargo's in Pontiac to see As I Lay Dying.  I decided on staying home because I didn't really feel like going tonight.  I think Ian is buying me a baby doll As I Lay Dying shirt, which will be neat.

Lisa and I made vanilla, sugar cookies and they turned out to be so good!  They have red and green ( Read more... )

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mina19 December 8 2005, 03:48:24 UTC
tough situation, the best thing to do is to think about well, what if she did leave him, where would she go? would she be safe there from him? coz no doubt the anger would be phenomenal, and i mean she could go to the police and tell them and she could get some protection. but what about money? does she work? if so, is it enough for her and her son to live on? i mean they could get some benefits to help. it is a big thing to do, but she needs ppl to be there for her, you could talk to her, then her family....if nothing, the next time she rings you up and says she been attacked, ring the police to go down there, even if you're in brighton they can contact the nearest branch to your friend. i think it would be best as you remain anoymous throughout it though. coz it could backfire on you. so be careful. but many ppl in that situation have been battered mentally aswell, so take that into cnsideration and even if you have to, drag her away for a while, and talk to her and make her see sense. she'll probably be in denial, but take her ( ... )

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toliveistohide December 8 2005, 12:57:19 UTC
Very tough situation. Actually she has her name on the lease of their apt. so he would get the boot. I'm sure something could be arranged where she would be safe from him. He is a very angry person, he has a lot of shit built up inside of him. She works at the campus and her parents help her out in any way they can as long as it goes to her and not A.J. They would be able to make it. He is always in and out of jail, so he never works and when he does he gets fired right away. We are all there for her and we've told her how we feel many times. I had that feeling where I was thinking we should have called the cops anyway. Yes, I think being anonymous would help. We were thinking that we could tell his P.O. that he isn't living there in Saginaw all the time and that he returns to Brighton. He would get locked up and that's the only time when she seems to "forget" about him. I know she has been battered mentally because she is a smart woman and she just keeps letting him walk all over her. I just don't get it. She is ( ... )

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whitevanilla December 8 2005, 12:22:27 UTC
Cookies and A Christmas Story. Man, I could go for both of those right now!

I'm sorry to hear about Jess. Boys can be a horrible curse upon a person.

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toliveistohide December 8 2005, 12:52:20 UTC
Heck yes, they are both awesome!

It's a continuous circle of shit with her and him. She needs to wake the fuck up and realize that he is taking her nowhere and only bringing her down.

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beautifulred5 December 8 2005, 16:34:17 UTC
Thanks Mel,
It's all gonna work out.

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toliveistohide December 8 2005, 18:26:06 UTC
You're welcome, Amy.

Yes it is!

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