Tell Sven. His reaction will help you figure out what to do. Because if he's just in it for a pleasant interlude, as you were when it began and maybe still are, he'll understand the parameters and will be willing to let you go. If it's not like that for him or if it may not be, if he finds this as surprising as you do, then you'll know that too.
But mostly, sweetie, I don't think it will be done either way until B gets back or until you talk to him. That's not a bad thing. That doesn't mean that everything is on hold for two months or that nothing can change. But what it means is, even if you decide one way or another, it will be put to the test when B returns. But I honestly think that you may need to see or speak with him before he returns, because his reaction will tell you something too.
I don't think this is a decision to make in the sober vacuum of your mind, you know? Because it involves two other people's hearts too.
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But mostly, sweetie, I don't think it will be done either way until B gets back or until you talk to him. That's not a bad thing. That doesn't mean that everything is on hold for two months or that nothing can change. But what it means is, even if you decide one way or another, it will be put to the test when B returns. But I honestly think that you may need to see or speak with him before he returns, because his reaction will tell you something too.
I don't think this is a decision to make in the sober vacuum of your mind, you know? Because it involves two other people's hearts too.
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Are you sure those feelings are for Sven? Could it be possible that you're projecting because he *is* there, and he *is* paying attention to you?
I think you should tell Sven. Wether or not you're gonna fall, he might fall for you. The least you can do is tell him that you're still floating.
*hugs* Good luck, sweetie. May the Best Man win and deserve your heart.
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