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[tim1965]

Last night, I saw a stripper with a huge cock. (Oh, don't they all???) In his pubes on his right hip, running down toward the inside of his thigh, he had tattooed (or possibly written in ink marker) "I'm famous for my big cock". On his left hip in the same place, he had "I am sexy because I'm hung

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[jp5040]

well ya know, he won't loose the cock size. Unlike many types of beauty that one thing remains true.

BUT... there is always somebody more impressive around so being overly proud of something so physical is sad.

[tim1965]

If I interpreted his body language and comments correctly, I think he was being sarcastic in his body tattoos. I think he knows that "sexy" doesn't come from having a huge penis, but the people he meets think it does. That he was treated as sexy and famous simply because he had a big cock was, I think, something which bothered him a lot.

[jp5040]

ah...
Honestly, I like the look of surprise when it comes out, but I understand that we are far more than the number of inches we carry :)
I think in my case I usually make sure guys have decided they like me or not as a person before they ever get to see my goodies. I have had the experience of being thought of as a bottom at first only to pull it out and have guys suddenly flip flop and put their legs in the air. Really it should not be that way, but it is. There is a lot of assumption around size/length etc. My current BF has had the same experience. When he got me naked he said it was a relief that I had what he had. He said it's a lot of pressure to live up to being a top all the time. LOL.

[tim1965]

That's funny, because almost everyone I meet thinks I'm straight or a top. I get no more looks or conversation once I tell them I'm a bottom. I've had guys reach halfway down my thigh, expecting to find a huge cock there, because I'm so assertive and aggressive. They can't conceive of someone who is a bottom who is assertive and confident.

I often worry about dating someone who is versatile, because I know I just cannot top and would never be able to satisfy his sexual desires the way he satisfies mine. (But then I realize I never have dates, and laugh at how foolish I am for worrying about things that will never happen.)

I think lots of well-hung men are bottoms, or at least versatile.

Hey, with your twice-a-day sex drive, you can get fucked in the morning and then fuck your BF in the evening! :)

[tim1965]

It's why I like watching Kurt Wild get fucked. Even by Barrett Long.

[italiangm]

Reminds me of an almost-trick I met in a bar. We were physically attracted to each other, had great conversation, all the right stuff. So we head out to go back to his place.

We get to my car and start making out. Out of the blue he says with a sneer: "You'll like me. All the boys like me." With that, he steps back and uses his hands to outline what is essentially an 8" beercan in his pants.

I thought about what he said and the tone in his voice. My interest dropped to zero. I replied, "Not all the boys...", said "good night" and left.

[tim1965]

I see that happen a LOT in D.C. Guys who are cute or handsome or buff or who have bubble-butts, and who automatically assume that you want X from them. It's like a bit of a coy in-joke: "We both know what you want..."

Only, it's not much of a joke. It's done with such arrogance and emotional coldness that it's almost frightening. If a person is so arrogant about that, what possible emotional bond could there ever be? How could I ever trust him? How could I ever believe that one I day I won't wake up with my bank account looted, or something stolen from my, or him off fucking someone else? It's psychosis, is what it is. And I could never date a psychotic. Not even befriend one.

[italiangm]

Yep.

In my case, I wasn't looking to marry the guy. Just thought we had good chemistry and would enjoy a romp.

I'm glad he verbalized his "...we both know what you want..." thoughts up front. The arrogance was too over-the-top for me.

[tim1965]

I can let practically any asshole fuck me if he's beautiful and hung enough. But I agree: Even I have limits. And that kind of arrogance is one of them. It pushes my buttons fiercely!!!