Last week when I donated blood, I had a conversation with the tech drawing it. She told me how good my veins were, and I told her I thought that must be because I had lost weight, that they used to have to take it from the back of my hand because they could never find one at my elbow. She asked me how much I had lost, and I told her. As usual, she
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I'm glad I made this post, now I feel less like I have to put on a sunny face for everyone who asks.
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The other thing is, I think genuine data is good? Like, if the tech is trying to lose weight, I'm sure she sees plenty of data about how losing weight has changed people's lives for the better -- there is no shortage of that narrative out there. And if some people's experiences, like yours, do differ from that, I don't think it's a bad thing to be aware of it.
I guess there are times when positivity is more useful than candid data, but I don't think life-long behavioral changes are one of those circumstances... Maybe that's just me, though, being a fundamentally lazy and change-averse person...
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Thanks for the comment! I feel more comfortable talking to people about it now. And who knows, if they catch me on a good day, maybe I'll be able to honestly tell them how great and wonderful it is. Bad days will be more balanced between good and bad.
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I think if someone asks they must be aware of getting an answer, not necessarily what they would like to hear.
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And you're right, I suppose they shouldn't expect just the answer they want to hear.
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Agreed, I hope she got that from it!
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Ah well! There are ups and downs to everything.
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