speaking of helpful articles

[thewaterknight]

I read the article cyanne linked this morning (and I'm relinking (reblogging?) it because it's fantastic and everyone should give it a glance), and as I was idly scrolling in the sidebar I stumbled across The Complete Guide to Not Giving a Fuck.

It's awesome.

Should you read it, read how not to be an accidental asshole too.

Comments

[matildarose]

The second link reminds me of when there was a meme going around on lj where people would turn on anonymous posting, and then ask people to say what they always wanted to say to them. It was a gutsy and brave move, but, I think its outcome may depend on what sort of person we ourselves are.

For me, it would translate to 'if one person thinks this about me, everyone must think this about me, therefore I'm the biggest asshole ever'. I'm sort of glad I never did that meme, but I can see where it can be completely useful.