I would tend to agree with you, lol. The situation is a little complicated by mobility issues on her end and such, but yeah. Breaking up by e-mail is Not Cool, especially if you're even pretending to give a shit about how the dumpee feels.
Not in any way the same, but I got dumped by my work crush a couple months ago. He went from being on IM with me every minute of every work day to ending all non-work related communication and today he banned me from IMing him. Which I had been, on work stuff, approximately once a week. Fucker.
What kills me is the illogic of it all. I didn't do anything wrong. If I had done something, that would make sense. I'd be all upset, but it's be logical. This though, makes no sense. Which I think is what is driving you nuts, too, the sheer illogic of it. Obviously you're in a far more upsetting situation but I think we share this sense of but-it's-not-FAIR...
I think we share this sense of but-it's-not-FAIR...
Exactly.
It's a thing where, even if you can accept that whatever it was is over and be zen about that, there's no real closure, just the cheap kind you have to manufature yourself. And that sucks.
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*goddamn hugs*
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*hugs*
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*dies of emo*
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sorry. i hope the rest of your day is considerably better than this.
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It was, actually. Thank you.
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What kills me is the illogic of it all. I didn't do anything wrong. If I had done something, that would make sense. I'd be all upset, but it's be logical. This though, makes no sense. Which I think is what is driving you nuts, too, the sheer illogic of it. Obviously you're in a far more upsetting situation but I think we share this sense of but-it's-not-FAIR...
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Exactly.
It's a thing where, even if you can accept that whatever it was is over and be zen about that, there's no real closure, just the cheap kind you have to manufature yourself. And that sucks.
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(Though, considering the comfort food I've been eating the last three days...)
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