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[thehighestwing]

Hey, Chicago! How ya doing? This is Phoebe Donovan, coming to you live from my room at the Kashtta Tower! I've got an appletini, a rom-com or two, and all of your pressing answers! Okay, not all of them. But some.Have you ever wanted to write to an advice column and felt kind of silly for contemplating the thought

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[thehighestwing]

Sure there is! I mean, the people we love are people we're always going to love, but you can stop feeling the intensity of it and move on with your life.

It's just not easy and it takes time.

I suggest going out and meeting new people! There are plenty of fish in the sea, and if someone can't see the wonderfulness that is you, then find someone that will!

If you'd rather be single for a while--which is also totally cool--it's still a good idea to find new things to do that will take your mind off of this idiot.

It's just going to take effort from your part, you know?

[Bawww, Phoebe does not mind this one bit! :>]

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[thehighestwing]

Uh huh. [Phoebe is not sure she believes this, but she won't pry!]

It is. It's hard knowing when to hold on and when to let go.

Well, do you want to be with someone?

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[thehighestwing]

[Baw, Ianto! Feelings are hard.]

Not really!

But I won't push you to talk about them if you don't want to.

I'm sorry to hear that. I think some things are meant to be. Even if we don't understand it at the time. If it's meant to be, it'll happen.

If it isn't, something better for you is waiting right around the corner.

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[thehighestwing]

It kind of does, but if you live your life that way, then you're not going to be happy and you're not going to move on.

It's that simple, honestly.

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[thehighestwing]

Thank you, I try! :)

I promise I won't. I mean that. Your feelings are your feelings and while it may SEEM like I'm a blabbermouth, I'm really not and I respect you and your privacy.