Comments | theblackwidower: I Wanna Tell You What Love Really Is

theblackwidower

I Wanna Tell You What Love Really Is

Mar 15, 2005 17:32

I haven't talked to Katie in days. It feels like an eternity. I think I'm gonna die. Not talking to her feels like hell. Especially when I'm depressed. This computer sucks, while trying to catch up on my flist, the computer froze. The moment I get the Tablet will be bliss.

Anyway, Yesterday I was thinking about something while watching Dr. ( Read more... )

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alexher123 March 15 2005, 23:22:13 UTC

I think your relationship is lacking in the 3rd, also i dont think ill call Dr. Tim.

theblackwidower March 16 2005, 00:01:14 UTC

Yeah I agree.

melancholyktten March 16 2005, 00:27:04 UTC

Alex and I tell each other everything...I know the good and bad of his past and him of mine. We respect each other's opinions and such. Alex and I talk like omg 7+ hours a day....we definately have the holy trinity of love in our relationship w00t!

sarry777 March 16 2005, 01:05:30 UTC

That's definitely not what love is. Love obviously needs those components to work but you're acting as though once you have that you're madly in love which is complete crap. Aside from honesty, you need trust and comfort in telling the truth. You can be honest to someone and not tell them the entire story but still not tell a lie. You have to be able to trust the other person even if they aren't ready to tell you something. Being honest doesn't require you to say every little detail either. I guess this is where respect comes up - if one person in the relationship is afraid of saying something because it's too personal the other person has to trust and respect that. Communication is a given but sometimes you don't need that either. I mean, you need it but just because you stop communicating with someone doesn't mean you necessarily don't love them anymore. Like if someone you loved went on a plane and died, you'd still love them, or if they went off to war and came back months later, you could still be deeply in love ( ... )

sarry777 March 16 2005, 01:08:14 UTC

*went on a plane, crashed, and died.

left out a word, haha

theblackwidower March 16 2005, 02:26:28 UTC

I didn't say that is all you need for love, I said these are the things you need for a healthy relationship. Now as for the thing involving communication, I meant if they can talk to you and won't, there is a problem, not if its physically impossible.

sarry777 March 16 2005, 03:35:50 UTC

I know. I was just in a pissy mood. but the thing is, those arent the only things you need for a healthy relationship

one main one you left out - happiness.

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xiix0lbs3ssii0n March 16 2005, 22:17:13 UTC

Interesting. I lack all three in the relationship. Sucks.

theblackwidower March 17 2005, 05:12:34 UTC

Oh...crap...well...um...IM me I guess.

meow4now March 17 2005, 17:17:43 UTC

Did you see the last JOA? I like the new girl. But I don't like what she said about kittens. But thats me. How are you. I am good today.

theblackwidower March 18 2005, 07:32:32 UTC

LOL, I'm good, I didn't see it this week unfortunately, I will this week though.