when I wake up at 3am, this is what I think about. no, really.

[thatotherperv]

I've been thinking a lot about the prostate. hahaha. as a slash writer, I figure it's pretty much my solemn duty to think about the prostate as much as possible, and by the looks of things, you all agree with me

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[felisblanco]

Hmph. *frowns* Hubby is at work which means I can't ask him until later. Although to tell the truth I'm not sure I'm very good at stimulating his prostate. I always get the feeling that I'm doing it wrong, that it should be *more* but like you say, that can be fanfic giving me too high expectations.

As for the g-spot, I've never been able to get over the squirmy stop-poking-my-bladder feeling when hubby's working his thing down there. It's so *intense* you know that I have trouble handling it. Actually it works a lot better from the other side, through the wall. which is one of the reasons why I love anal sex so much. *g*

[thatotherperv]

why am I not at all surprised that you and evilmaniclaugh were the first responders *grins*

ask him and report back! haha. pretty please.

you know. I never thought about the g-spot being stimulated in anal sex. interesting! makes sense though, I dunno why it never occurred to me.

as for the squirmy bladder-poke, yeah. I mean, I think that first time was also a little overly. erm. vigorous. hahaha. less is more for me there, but at the same time, I like someone else doing it because it seems to work a little better when it's out of my control. or that might be my other kinks talking, haha.

*smooch*

and I wanna know about your hubby's prostate! er. well. you know what I mean.

[evilmaniclaugh]

All I know is that my hubby's eyes get huge with excitement and he demands it a lot. Trying to get a man to explain more than 'it's fucking good' is difficult, but it does seem to be a lot more exhilarating than the uncomfortable G spot sensation which can be good or bad depending on mood for me.

A few months ago I read up a lot on the web about milking prostates and prostate orgasms and that helped when writing. It also meant that I stopped my boys being so vigorous with the butt smexing. I'm sure a lot of my earlier attempts would have ended up with the guys in hospital. ::blushes::

Hmmm maybe this is why I write het and femme a lot more nowadays. :D

Great post, babes!

[thatotherperv]

heee, good to know.

A few months ago I read up a lot on the web about milking prostates and prostate orgasms and that helped when writing
any websites you can point me to? or specific things you remember. inquiring minds, Liz!

my earlier attempts would have ended up with the guys in hospital. ::blushes::
lol. yeah. and at the same time, I read a man's post somewhere on how when women write gay sex, we tend to overemphasize the prep process, and that not all guys need the TLC, haha. or more lubricant than spit. which STILL makes me O_o and squirm when I see it in fic but. *shrugs*

[evilmaniclaugh]

THIS site is good. I also googled a lot for dry and multiple male orgasm and it gave me a much clearer insight into a how a man feels, how his body responds. Any site talking about Tantra is very helpful for this.

I just like reading about sex really LOL.

I read a man's post somewhere on how when women write gay sex, we tend to overemphasize the prep process, and that not all guys need the TLC, haha. or more lubricant than spit. which STILL makes me O_o and squirm when I see it in fic but. *shrugs*

I consider that slash writing is totally different from gay porn stories written found at the Nifty site for example. They go for it with no prep and they love the smell and the sweat and the shit. That's not what I want to read or write. :D I like the sanitised version with nice clean men and lots of good sex with very little recovery time. My more realistic stories involve the use of anal douches. :)

[kindredspirit75]

I, too, am one of the inquiring minds who want to know how it feels for a guy to have his prostate "bumped".

The only experience I've had was with hubby, who comes instantly with my finger up his butt.

Same goes for men who have prostate exams... many of them become instantly erect and are embarrassed by their response, so it must be "fucking good" as evilmaniclaugh pointed out.

[thatotherperv]

your.icon. dear SWEET baby jesus. who says gay sex isn't beautiful. christ.

as for the rest, good to know :) I've long wondered if the reason men hate prostate exams is not discomfort, which was always my assumption for a long time, but you know. inappropriate pleasure. haha.

[lostakasha]

See, here's my problem:

I read your post and started thinking about my inner workings and what feels fab and was ready to write a hymn to my g spot and have pretty boys do a little fingering and...uh...well. I don't have time to write the porn you inspired because I have to go to the gyn this morning.

*weeps*

It's just not fair.

[thatotherperv]

ACK! I WEEP FOR THE PORN.

a hymn to your g-spot, eh? damn, I'm good. :)

[laisserais]

hahaha. so i read this and then went and checked and nope, it's not flocked. you're totally awesome. i absolutely do not have the balls to say some of the shit you do. which is maybe why i love you so much.

i'd be interested to hear what other folks have to say on this, the question of the hour: Does It Zing?

[thatotherperv]

*SNERK* you know, I actually only flock the things that mention a piece of information I feel someone could use to confirm my Sekrit Identity. hahahaa. specifics about school and stuff. all the sex stuff? it all hangs out, baby. hahaha.

I don't know, with some of the premises on the porn I've posted publicly, I feel silly being coy.

*squish*! me too. inquiring minds!