Commitment

[tezzie7]

I realize that it has been forever that I have posted an entry so you are all probably knocked down by surprise.... so here it is....have you noticed that some of the most ridiculous things subject us to questioning everything about ourselves whether it be our image, our personalities, or worst of all relationships

Comments

[sporty20]

Tezja, your life sounds like my life. None of my past relationships lasted more than 2 or 3 months either and it was because I would find a "flaw." But the truth is, that doesn't happen every time. There will be someone who, despite their flaws that might possibly drive you nuts, you are still completely head over heels for. If you break up with someone because of their flaws, it wasn't really meant to be. But liking someone despite their quirks... now that's something.

My advice: Don't think.

[myvoicewithin_]

read this right before three months. looking at what you just wrote, you know in your heart that you want this to last. dont let the theory of "3 months or more" get you down. dont think of this relationship on a timeline. think of it as something that you get to enjoy day by day. right now, you seem to be looking toward a future that hasnt happened yet. if you are truly happy, youre not gunna let anyone take that away from you, especially yourself.